Why do I even talk to him?

Question

I’ve been talking to this guy who is - a complete loser. I don't mean to sound rude...but it's true.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me! I’m normally extremely picky...to say the least. So this “guy” lives at home with his mother, isn’t in college, and is 22. Ok I’m embarrassed just typing this out! He will be going into the air force, but still...
He is very handsome, sweet, cute, etc. but HE LIVES AT HOME. Really, is there something wrong with me?
I don’t mean to sound full of myself but- lets just say guys are not hard to come across for me. So way am I wasting my time on him?

I think what someone said about guys that live on their own being full of themself is true quite a bit of the time. I guess that’s one of the things I like about him- he’s not. Actually he pretty much the opposite of conceited... also, I feel like I don’t have to worry about being good enough when I talk to him.

Answer 1

Well, just being 22 and living at home isn't such a sin. But usually college students live at home, not people who are already working. As to why you're wasting your time on him, I'd guess that it has something to do with him being handsome, cute, etc. If he's going into the Air Force, he might go to college after he gets out. Good luck!

Answer 2

Wow your really rude.. He is going into the Air force.. so what should he do, Run out get an apartment/house to suit your needs then move again when he goes into the Air Force? get over it!! Grow up!! You sound very stuck on yourself and very materialistic.

You say he is very sweet and handsome.. Okay well maybe your better off with a jacka88 that's ugly and rude who has his own place.. Suit you better?

Some ppl amaze me!!

Answer 3

whats the point of moving out of home renting some place then moving out when you go to airforce? try have an open mind just cause he lives at home doesnt have to mean something is wrong with him. Why is he a complete loser? ask yourself that. If he is a "complete loser" why care enough to write in.

Answer 4

Trust me its a good thing that he lives at home.
Guys who have all that freedom tend to get rude and conceded. Thinking that they now have everything. And if hes planning on going into the air-force then he does have something going for him aND its not like hes just lazy and pathetic.

Answer 5

Woman give the worst relationship advice...just look above. "Maybe you can fix him blah blah blah blah." "Listen to your heart" Insert vomiting noise here.

Please look at your own words. I'll make it short.

Cute + Loser + Moving Away = You want sex

That way you don't have to be emotionally attached if does come back and if he's horrible in bed you have a chance that he might die in combat and never have to have that awkward "I don't won't to have anything to do with you because your horrible in bed" conversation.

Your only wasting your time becuase your not getting to the point.

Answer 6

Maybe because you are too shallow to realize someone has a good heart? Try asking him why he is still at home. You never know someone's situation. But since you have made up your mind to talk to a loser, maybe you should walk away to the next one...

Answer 7

u obviously feel something for him, and if guys come to u easily then forget him and go talk to some other guy, and if u are as good looking as u say... im not a loser

Answer 8

there is nothing wrong with living at home. maybe he doesnt have the money to live on his own, maybe his mother feels she needs him to protect her. who knows? dont judge guys like that. get to know him because u shouldnt be judging him like that.

Answer 9

bcuz u hate 2 admit it but u like u jus dont want ur friendz or nebody else to relle kno that so ur tryin 2 play it off like u dont like him...but u relle kno u do

Answer 10

he's going in the air force, why would he need to have an apartment that he's going to have to get rid of before he goes... give him a chance...