Well i was going though old pictures and found a picture of a old girlfriend and my current girlfriend found it and told me that i should throw it out but i mean its not like its out in view it hidden away ina box for memorys just cause they are a ex doesn't mean i should forget about them should i what would you do
2006-12-08 13:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by mystifieddragonx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her memories are very important to us dudes and that your ex is from a diffrent time in your life and she has no reason to get jealous because you've obviously moved on in life seeing how your having this debate with her your current chick
2006-12-08 13:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by trov1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are totally reasonaable to keep it in a box if you like. You not even flaunting her picture, much less displaying it--which would signify to an even greater degree what meaning you hold for this picture or your ex.
And, clearly, your ex is not trying to get you back, calling you, sending you notes, etc., so your current has no cause to be jealous and even less reason for trying to be controlling of you or what you do with this photo.
Keep it as you have been. If she brings it up again or tries to get more pushy about it, ask her what HER problem is? Why does SHE feel threatened?
Oh, and tell her to keep the hell out of your stuff, especially if that photo bothers her. You have a right to some minimal level of privacy.
2006-12-08 21:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by answerme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont throw out, that is a part of your life and your past, this person is truly insecure and needs to get a grip, If you have a loving relationship she should not worry and if she is maybe this might not be the person you want to stay with. Your past cant change your feeling for her only make them stronger, this other erson is an x for a reason and that is what you should tell her. Keep your past dreams and memories cuz when you get older they will give you much warmth and fondness
2006-12-08 21:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by nativegurl <!-- START YAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk with my current girlfriend and let her know that there is no reason to be jealous or envious at all and that I was just keeping it for memories. Sad fact of life is that current girlfriend will probably not be there forever either and you'll have pics of her that you may want to keep also. Tell her to keep an open mind and that you are keeping them, but in a nice mature way. Best of luck.
2006-12-08 21:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is just a girlfriend, I do not see any reason why you need to get rid of the photo. It sounds like your girlfriend is a bit insecure. If the picture offends her, just leave it at your parent's place or something. I would caution against disposing of pictures unless you are engaged or married.
2006-12-08 21:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it, but hidden.. I know that I would love to have a picture of my ex just to look back on for memories... I don't see why it would be a problem..
2006-12-08 21:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it doesnt mean anything. if u want to kkep it, thats fine, unless it really upsets her. whatever you do, don't say u threw it out and really keep it. she will find out and u will be in huge trouble cause u just violated the trust rule.
2006-12-08 21:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it, but talk to ur gf too about it and make her understand why u want to keep it
2006-12-08 21:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋