i dont know what to do ok well i like this guy for almost 2 years and now i am finally going out with him we've been going out for 3 months and we both planned on staying with eachother forever and now i am starting to fall in love with this other guy and he likes me to but i really dont know what to do
2006-12-08 13:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by 124325 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have the classic, in love with the notion of not being able to be with the one you want. make sense? you love having feelings fro someone that you cant be with. you love that unrequited love situation. thats why you keep putting yourself there. cos if you really were into this guy for two years and now you are with him, nothing else should matter, especially someone esle.
2006-12-08 13:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, man you do have a problem here.. Well, that's too bad you liked the first guy for 2 years, went out 3 months and now you are attracted to somebody else?.. You said you planned on staying with the first guy.. I'm kind of thinking three months wasn't a long enuff time to make that kind of decision. I know everybody's probably gonna say to 'tell the first guy..' But, I don't know. How long have you known this second guy? Think seriously about each of them. Which one is REALLY going to be great (like love you for who you are.. who's 'kind'.. all that stuff your momma'd luv for ya, K?) to be around..? Sometimes we think somebody we 'cant' really be with' is teriffic and the poor guy we left was really going to be nicer to us in the long run. (They say girls got the 'hots' for the 'bad boys' sometimes.. lol I dunno about that tho!) Don't do anything drastic yet, K? Wait another month and see if you can't give it a shot w/the first one. (I am just taking you at your word here, that you 'plan on staying with one another' is alll.. ) later-
2006-12-08 21:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't married and do not have children then follow your heart. don't stay with someone for fear of change or because you feel guilty leaving them. if you have feelings especially feelings of love for someone else then have enough respect for the other person to leave them now. don't let them invest more time and love into a relationship that isn't progressing forward and built on honesty. it it is meant to be then it will be. just have faith.
good luck. SD
2006-12-08 21:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by SD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be sure of what you want yet..So ask for some time away..Men always do that...check your feelings out before you commit to anyone forever..You will know when it is for keeps..........
2006-12-08 21:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not happy in the other relationship and it's only been three months. End it before you hurt him and waste his time.
2006-12-08 21:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not committed to your current relationship you need to break it off before you hurt the guy. Yes, it will be hard...but it would be much harder to do if you waited.
2006-12-08 21:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Missourifolk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you love and makes you happy. it's hard but you got to do whats best for you. good luck
2006-12-08 21:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Itza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man life could end anytime so take advantage of what is put on your plate before its all gone
2006-12-08 21:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Orlando 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on who you like better.
2006-12-08 21:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont like your bf anymore
why be with him??
leave him
2006-12-08 21:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋