I am only in my 30's and no kids...separated...going trough a divorce...I bought a puppy recently to cheer me up...I took her home she wouldn't eat ...took her back to petstore they said she is just depressed and to force feed her for couople of days... 2 days later she wouldn't walk... I took her to the vet.... I had to leave her there they said she was very week (8weeks old puppy Yorkie) Next day they called me that she wasn't doing very good they ran all these tests but nothing... I decided to go and visit her,,, I took her toy with me....She was hooked on iv and was unconscious.. I started petting her for quite a while she would cry to me... After I left 30 minutes later the vet called that she passed away. I had a puppy who cheered me up for 4 days ,,,she died...I think I am cursed...How can I get out of this shethole...Besides I am seeing a married man who has kids....Should I kill myself???
2006-12-08 13:04:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not kill yourself! life is the most valuable thing. i was watching Oprah last night and a women was on the show that was divorced and then remarried to a different man. while on her early jog her ex husband went into her house and killed all four of his 3children from ages 7-18 and then the women's daughter from her new marriage. the man also killed the husband and himself. if you think about his women and her problems your may not seem so big. while on the show 3 other women came on telling her how they saved there life. they also were contemplating suicide. you should seek help cause there is,
2006-12-08 13:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT kill yourself. You should make the pet store either give you back your money or another pet. There was something wrong with the puppy. It wasn't anything you did, you are not cursed. You are just a little depressed. I should know about depression I have had problems with it myself. You really should get a pet. I don't take anti depressants anymore. I have 3 little puppy dogs. They work great, if you feel depressed just sit in the floor and they will have you laughing in no time. As for the married man , ask yourself how would you feel if your were in his wifes place. I am not a religious person but I do believe in treating others as I want to be treated. You still have a lot to look forward to in you life. How happy your life is depends on the choices you make.
2006-12-08 13:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Scarlett & Bret's Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After enduring such an ordeal as yours, it is quite understandable that you can feel the way that you do now. You have no feelings? I don't think so. If you have no feelings then you will go on living your life as if nothing ever happened at all, perfectly happy with all that is going on around you, and that is not normal. If you can still feel depressed, feel sad over your puppy, then take hope!, for you still have your feelings intact with you.
Do you think that killing yourself will solve all your problems, and bring peace upon yourself? Are you sure that after you died all your depression will vanish alltogether, and you will cease to endure it? If you think so, then think again. If you had the same believe / creed as I do, you will believe that there is life after death, and that goes on for eternity. If you don't believe it, well then you don't know it for sure anyway.
Okay, you had no husband and no kids. But do you still have your parents? Do you still have any friends? Imagine what their feelings would be if you kill yourself. Surely they will be sad and stricken with grief. Don't you think it is a little selfish if you want to end your depression (by killing yourself) if that will inflict grief and depression upon others?
I'm guessing that now you are feeling useless, that your life in this world had no meaning and purpose, and that your life or death would mean nothing to anyone. Well, think again. I remember some wise people said:
"We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop"
"To the world, you may be just one person. But to one person, you may be the world!"
You are definitely not worthless. You have a purpose in this life. There are people who cares for you. Don't believe it? Then at least you have one, who is writing this answer for you. There, you already have one. Just need to add some more. :-)
So you must go on with your life, no matter how hard it seems.
My best wishes for you and your life, and remember that out there, somewhere, someone cares for you.
2006-12-08 14:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Christian - acct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think that life's problems are so great that you kill yourself. If you don't mind let me put a lil christianity in here for a moment my bible says:
1. Come unto me yea who labor and I will give you rest for my yoke is easy and my burdens are light.
2. I came that you might have life and have it more abundantly
3. Lift up your head o yea gates, look unto the hills for whence cometh your help, your help cometh from the Lord
My sister get rid of the man that is married who are with. Its not benefiting your life. This is the reason why depression has surrounded your home. A marriage is like a church, when a man and woman come together under the God they become one in his sight. GOD IS LIFE!! If this wasn't so I wouldn't tell you this. Live with all your might!! And pray everyday as if it was a meal, which it is to your soul.
As a token I leave you with this link. Click on it and never be the same.
2006-12-08 13:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nae Nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their down points in their lives where it seems nothing is going right for them. You also can recover! you are going through a tough time right now. i dont see how killing yourself is gonna stop everything. Life goes on and is not that bad. you need a little self worth. Get involved in some thing that you accomplish things to make you feel better about yourself. if you have nothing else to live for; at least live for me because i would feel just awful if you follow through on this.
2006-12-08 13:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your puppy and that things did not work with your husband. You are only in your 30's you have great things to accomplish and many things to do. Please try and think of the people who love you and how your demise might affect them. God will never give you more than you can handle. So a few things didn't work keep trying.
2006-12-08 13:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Thats not the answer. You have to go through a lot of bad all at once, sorta like getting it over with. Then all at once the clouds will give way, and the sun will shine through once again. Always have hope, even though its terribly hard to do at times.
2006-12-08 14:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, it is ok to feel sad sometimes and maybe you can get a new puppy. That one was probably sick. Sucicide is totally wrong. You have a life and you need to keep it. Turn that frown upside down and go on in life. Perk up. Go out with your friends one night?
2006-12-08 13:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by skimboardergal6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel the holidays are always the worst, and to day is my birthday and i have not even had a call, to bad we are in different part of states or we could go out and get drunk, nah that wouldn't work , i guess we need to move on with our life its to short to be as down as we are, go shopping, if you have no one to buy for buy for your self, let both of us hold our head high and move on with our life, good luck hun hope you can try and do this i am sure going to try,{{HUGS}}
2006-12-08 13:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would stay away from men and get some friends join a girl team.Your dog had a disease like pargo. I would seek depression treatment and get some happy pills like as soon as possible
2006-12-08 13:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Monet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋