For the past couple of months I had been "dating" this guy. I put dating in quotes because last week I found out he has a girlfriend so I ended everything with him (yea smart me, I guess). I even told him not to try to contact me, at least for a few days, because I was so hurt. I told him I am not able to be friends with him bc I want more too.
Tuesday he contacted me and asked me could I talk to him again and yesterday he told me he still has feelings for me. Up until Tuesday I was doing good, I missed him a little and thoughts of him didn't consume my mind. Now I want him back more than I ever did before. I won't contact him but I want to just to tell him how much I miss him.
Besides how he lied to me, I thought he was a great guy. I care about him dearly and loved the way (besides the lie) he treated me. I never obsessed over him when "I had him" but now that he is taken I am obsessing over him. Help
2006-12-08 13:02:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a great guy except for that whole cheating on you and lying to you part? get real, honey! you know that saying "love is blind"?
your only hope is to never talk to him again. if you start things with him again, how will you know he isn't cheating? how can you trust him?
2006-12-08 13:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by painfully_average 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its been 4 years, has he given you any other reason to not trust what he says? If he doesn't want anything to do with her and he stuck with that then you should be more trusting. And what did you think was going to happen after you broke up? Of course he was going to find someone else to care about, he came back to you tho so suck it up and move on. Either have a relationship with him and quit worrying bout his ex or he's gonna end up leaving anyway. Good Luck!!
2016-05-22 21:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate cliches, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. This guy cheated on his girlfriend with you. There is no doubt that you would also be betrayed. Keep thinking that. Also, keep in mind any little thing that bugged you about him, no matter how small. Don't tell me there is nothing, because nobody's perfect. Good luck
2006-12-08 13:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by bigj587 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly cared about you he'd be upfront and honest. He'd also have ended his relationship with the other person long ago. You don't really know him because if you did you would have seen that he is dishonest and untrustworthy.
Until (and possibly not even then) he is truly remorseful and is a single person then I'd let him go.
2006-12-08 13:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You were only dating him. It's better to get out of the game early than to stay and risk him cheat on you like he did with his other girlfriend. If he did it once, what makes you think he's not going to do it again?
2006-12-08 13:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat up on yourself! Stay positive and focused. Find a great hobby and rely on family and friends to help you through. You can make it. You deserve happiness and you will receive it. Just realize that you come first and stay strong and encouraged.
2006-12-08 13:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by betterthanthat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he could lie to you and hurt you so much ,should tell you that he is not trustable. be thankful you didnt marry him.he is not faithful material. get out and enjoy yourself and find someone who isnt with someone and get to know them and forget this jerk who probably was unfaithful to you as well.if you dont leave him alone you will end up like the poor girl who he was ruuning around on. find you someone else.
2006-12-08 13:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for ya...I was in the same situation months ago ,but I came to the conclusion that Im worth more than that...and so are u
dont settle for less
good luck
2006-12-08 13:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by ms.yahoo answers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
time is the only way to end your obsession until then.... distract yourself go and and fun with friends ect... but whatever you dont get back with him.. he cheated and lied no matter how much you like him he is not good enough for you!!
2006-12-08 13:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by katie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe u should tell him that u were hurt when he lied to u; if u havent already told him this....if he already had a gf, i feel sorry for hi gf, cause hes obviously been playing here...maybe hes not the kind of guy u should be with; i mean, he "cheated' on his gf with u kinda, and what if he does the same to u????
2006-12-08 13:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋