theres this dude that i like his always in the library at lunch reading, yesterday he was in there doing work but we were tapping on the window to get his attention but he doesnt even look at us he totally ingores us and so we tapped really hard and they moved him to the other side of the library i guess he got in trouble... today i thought he wouldnt be sitting in the same seat because he got in trouble but he did... so we tapped again slowly but he payed no attention he was smiling while reading and then me and my friends put I LOVE YOU on this paper and put it in the window and he still didnt look up my friend said he did for a bit but i didnt see him lol and then we went in the library and i we were talking loud so he heard us say how i love him and i cant tell him how much i love him because i start shaking he smiled and then lunch was over and he left... does he like me?
i dont think so i am very hurt...
btw he doesnt have friends i always see him alone maybe his shy?
2006-12-08 12:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus if he didnt like me tapping and looking at him he wouldnt have sat at the same place right?
2006-12-08 13:00:30 · update #1
The guy likes you he's just playing hard to get. It seems like he has been schooled well. what I'm telling you cant be repeated K. he is playing with your head he likes you but he's a smart "player" trying to make your attraction for him to rise and from what you told me it seems like it's working. since you know this now try to reverse this try to be mysterious. stare at him a little to long if your not doing this already open up to him a little more, sit with him and most of all don't be afraid to ask more personal questions like if he has friends why are you always alone & most of all dont be afriad to be the one that asks him on a date. most men that are with poeple all the time are the "I'm in charge" kinda person but since he sits alone try to turn him into a "I'm in charge" kinda person he'll like that when he's the "I'm in charge" man try not so say no to him but at the same time dont be afraid to say "no" either and most of all BE YOUR SELF K
P.S i should know this stuff i'm a guy
2006-12-08 13:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brad J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a girlfriend, but enjoys having you there to feel flattered and important. I think you should go sit next to him with a book in your hand and act like your reading and if he doesn't get up and leave than he likes having you around, and you should talk to him.
2006-12-08 13:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats lovable! you're able to easily take of venture and refer to her. I also have a similar situation different than im the girl and that i desire the guy to talk. thats no longer wierd in any respect u like her so that's clever she in all possibility likes u that's why she is quiet around you attempt to get to understand her then tell her the way you sense
2016-12-30 04:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute!!!!
You just said "he likes me ALOT"
BUT then you said: "does he like me?...i dont think so i am very hurt..."
WHOA!!----If he doesnt SAY anything to you, like "Hey, I like You"---Maybe you need a new crush.
2006-12-08 13:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desperate..... Anyways talk to him I think your a bit shy too just talk to him it seems like your trying to make it all romantic and dramatic just talk to the dude
2006-12-08 13:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cool. You're not going to find out that easily. Just give it time.
2006-12-08 13:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems kind of lame to me.dude might be crazy.But heres the advice.If you like the dude go talk to him and see if he likes you
2006-12-08 13:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Xaviare R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, good luck with that.
don't concentrate on boys, work on studying inside those windoes that you're tapping.
you don't love him. you don't even know him.
2006-12-08 13:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm............. this is hard but i do think u have a chance with him.if ud reallly like to know, the best way IS to go and talk to him. good luck!!!
2006-12-08 13:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just ask him out and find out?
2006-12-08 13:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋