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I want me and my new family to go back to my home, but we live where she was raised right now and she wants to stay, we love each other very much ...all her family is here all of mine are 3000 miles away, what route should i take?

2006-12-08 12:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by rattlingyouallover 1 in Family & Relationships Family

5 answers

Have her to move with you half way between both families.

2006-12-08 12:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0 0

I'm living this right now...
You need to answer some real important questions...
Can you support her and your family if you moved home? (If you got kids)
How supportive are your family of your relationship?
Does everyone get along? And the most important question of all...is the grass truly greener on the other side? Have you ever heard of the saying...you can never go home?
We always think that we can go home and everything will be better but sometimes reality rears it's ugly head and lets us know that somethings aren't meant to be. Is this one of those things?
It is for me.

2006-12-08 13:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by why 2 · 0 0

Marriage is about compromise. It's not always fair, but you have decide which is more important; being with your family, having it your way, or being married to the person you vowed your life to. If you stay with your wife, then she will need to learn to give a lot too. Don't give her everything as she expects, remind her that it goes both ways. If you can love her more than yourself, and she can learn to do the same, you will have a successful marriage.

2006-12-08 13:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Catie 4 · 0 0

That hard thing to do. maybe when you get a vacation time you and your family can go there , let her see how it is. and then sit down and talk to her, maybe in a year or so. she will be willing to move there, It is expscially hard for a women to move away from her parents and that. be patient, things will work out for all of you.

2006-12-08 12:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0 0

You must be whoped. She has you wrapped around her finger. Just kidding! Why don't you guys just move 1500 miles from both sides. Therefore, it will be all even.

2006-12-08 12:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by titanman911 1 · 0 1

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