i like this girl a lot but we don't talk a lot and when i try to talk to her i get really nervous and just walk away without saying anything i really want to tell her that i like her but how?
2006-12-08 12:44:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok people r telling me to just ask her or send her a note but i only have her for one class and i dont c her except for that class and i dont wanna tell her in class so what should i do?
2006-12-08 13:02:07 · update #1
Well, ask the girl for an online chat. Tell her then and ask what she thinks. If she's taken, just ask to be her guy friend for now.
2006-12-08 12:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by coolbratzfd1256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sendig her a note and leaving it in her locker/etc.
You could always find out what she likes. Like...if it is a certain show that you like as well, trying breaking the ice with that. Ask what she thought of the last episode/etc. Then go from there.
Remember, she's just a girl.. not a monster. No reason you should feel nervous. You have just as much chance as the next guy.
2006-12-08 20:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by gintkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found it very easy to write a letter to the guy i liked. He thought it was sweet. When you get around her just act like she is any other girl, because to get to know her you have to talk to her like she is anybody else, but you still have to make her feel special. Find out what she likes and buy her a Christmas gift and in the letter tell her that u like her and tell her y u like her. when she is around some of her friends go talk to her and her friends as a big group it is a lot easier. Don't be nervous around her, she is a person just like you. Just start a conversation about something that you both like, it could be something like movies or music. Just talk about anything you can think of. Most of the time girls will think that it is sweet when u try to get to know them, i know that i find it nice when people take the time to get to know me. When you get a chance to talk to her, take it, don't let it slip by. I hope i could help some.
2006-12-08 20:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nice girls finish last 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 47,and the best way is to just man up and tell her!!!It shows that you are confident and secure in your own sexuality and that you are mature enough to handle her needs.Be a man and scratch for your dirt!!! If you dont some other guy will.Whats the worst that could happen ,Rejection?Big deal,If she cant see how much she means to you ,its not going to work anyway.
2006-12-08 20:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by davidparker1959 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day out of the blue, walk up confidently and say, I've been watching you from afar and I think you are an intelligent and beautiful lady. I would love to know more about you.
Guarantee she'll want to talk to you more.
2006-12-08 20:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with the guy i liked until I just had to tell him cuz you can't keep that from another person, you have to tell them how you feel. If you tell this girl, she will start noticing you and i bet that's what you want, for her to notice you more. so i say you tell her the truth, cuz it would be better for the both of you...
2006-12-08 20:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really simple:
1. Walk up to her
2. Tell her you like her.
3. Wait for a reaction.
2006-12-08 21:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by brainiac159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass her a note tell her you would like meet her for a drink or coffee. If she Say's yes then you can tell her you think she is very nice and that you like her.
2006-12-08 20:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she likes you to but she is too nervous to say anything...just go up to her and say hi and tell her you like her and you would like to be friends and then work your way up...
2006-12-08 20:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if tour to nervous to talk to her, ask a friend to come with you or just write her a note
2006-12-08 20:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by MAKEUPxADDiCT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋