He also looks jealous when I kiss or hug his friend.(my b/f) WHY?? He asked me out but I said no. He said we could still be friends and I accepted.
What's so wrong we both moved on. He has dated a girl(they broke up) since I turned him down. Why is he so jealous??
GUYS, WOULD YOU BE JEALOUS IN HIS SHOES TOO??
2006-12-08 12:41:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's completely reasonable. He probably still 'likes' you. Tone down the PDA when he's around, and he won't be so grumpy.
2006-12-08 12:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by rockingharder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully I have been in the guys positions before. Its not an easy place to be he truly wants to be your friend. But he still has feelings for you. Thats not anything thats going to go away very easily. He will be jealous until he moves on and there is no time limit on that expecially if he had true feelings for you. Agian I have been there the only thing that you can do is make it known you don't care for him in that way and let him ride it out he'll get over it in time. If there's anything else you need on the subject just email me
2006-12-08 12:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jason C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this,
When you go to bed, you think of everything that you can possibily think of. Hair, what to wear tomorrow, money, partying, work, etc.
When a lot of guys go to bed, he thinks about one thing, and its usually the one girl that makes him happy, or guy in other circumstances.
Just because he doesn't say I AM JEALOUS to you, doesn't mean you can tell him he shouldn't be. You shot him down, it takes a lot of nerve for people to ask other people out, especially when they like that person al ot. You are kissing his friend, he said I want to be friends still, cuz its better to have you there, then not at all. It's one of their hidden codes, so we can't see their true feelings. Not many guys talk about their feelings, just like girls are really good at lying, to hide what their thinking too. You may have moved on, but just cuz he dated someone new, doesn't mean he's moved on, who are you to say, how hes feeling, or what he should be feeling?
2006-12-08 12:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by hayden1107 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys would be jealous and some won't.
Depends on how hard they fell.
Maybe he is looking at you and your boyfriend,
1 because he wants you and 2 maybe he knows
something about your boyfriend that you don't.
Maybe your boyfriend likes to chat up the guys
when your not around. Girls aren't the only ones
who gossip. He likes you, so it pisses him off.
You said you would be friends, talk to him about
all this making you uncomfortable....
Is this the same old friend that raped you?
You may be in for more trouble...
Can you spell STALKER?
2006-12-08 12:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It sounds like he hasn't really moved on yet. Or....that he is fixated on you, in which case he needs help.I broke up with my ex 2 years ago, and now we are best friends.We actually try to help each other find other people to date.You may need to consider a restraining order.What it comes down to in the long run is this, even though the 2 of you are no longer together, he doesn't want anyone else to be involved with you either.
2006-12-08 12:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Carl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a jealous guy trust me. But it sound like she still has feelings for you. and when he she you with an othe guy he get jealous because he think there a much less chance to get back with you. When there prolly no chance right?
2006-12-08 12:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how hot you are, but most likely hes not okay with you dating his friend so either he has to get over it or your gonna deal with this jealous looks
2006-12-08 12:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first this is a guy answering the question just the avatar is of my ex whom i share this account with.
he still likes you he hasnt gotten over you and i bet you they broke up because he was too preoccupied likeing you to treat her like she though he should have. i know i get jealous kinda when i see my ex (whom i still love) geting hit on by her friends (she is still singal and doesnt want anyone atm) but they hit on her and it kinda hurts me to see that. especialy when the guy is all over her or she is just being nice to someone like she is to everyone and the guy takes it wrong and pulls some dumb sh!t
so he likes you and wants you and is pissed that he didint get you and his friend did.
2006-12-08 12:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by AshleyNick H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back and unless you want him back you just keep doing what you're doing. It's not your problem it's his. Insecurity and jealousy are two things you don't want in your life, so move on and you might have to sacrifice the friendship for a little while until he gets over you.
2006-12-08 12:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be too young to be dating if you keep thinking about jealousy and etc... Why don't you pop open a book and read. Make something of yourself rather than worrying about a guy.
2006-12-08 12:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by titanman911 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋