...even though you tried your best to make it happen?
and the other person made you think you were so special*
what did you do about it?
forgive them?
hate them?
still actually like them?
2006-12-08 12:35:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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nope didn't sleep with them yet, thank god!
but if in your scenario you did...how did you cope with the situation?
2006-12-08 12:46:42 · update #1
i have.
i've been slept with and all the things you've mentioned but it still led to no relationship.
i had to leave her behind and move on. i can't deal with indecisive people who are going to mess with my emotions like that. try once more AT MOST then go. it's even hard to be friends after something like that.
2006-12-08 12:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. Eventually I got so worked up and confused he dumped me. I was hopeful, distressed, distraught and am now over him.
I managed to get into a similar situation - I suppose I like the same type of man. I'm more chilled about it this time and we both still like each other. We've been together a year next week - but I'm not sure of the status of the 'relationship' although he always says I'm gorgeous, lovely, etc, it's always just words. So, when I feel cool, calm and rational I'm having to keep my options open in the hope of finding a committed man. But, when I'm not feeling rational, I can't bear to leave him, even though I've tried - I love him, I don't hate him.
2006-12-08 12:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had it happen to me. I liked her and from the amount of flirting she did with me, you'd think she really liked me too.
Then I found out about her other guys. Eventually got to know her and she turned out to be an insecure whore. So now I don't like her in that way because her personality just puts me off.
There was something wrong with her. She hooks up with random guys even when she admits there is no connection. Yet somebody who she confides in, and blatantly flirts with (me), gets nothing? I'm far hotter than the guys she hooks up with too.
She tries to flirt with me still, but I don't give anything back. As somebody above said, it's quite difficult to be friends with somebody after that. Not a respectable person.
2006-12-08 12:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Yosh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people have suffered an experience similar to yours. When you finally decide that you're wasting your life walk away.
Not every relationship is going to work out, but take the next one a little slower to ensure that you are both on the same wavelength.
Don't hate your ex-partner, after all, he is the loser.
2006-12-08 12:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Davy Crockett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and let me say its no fun. I let it go on for 4 years until I finally got some sense knocked into me. I finally left the situation and afterward he proposed. Imagine his shock when I said HELL NO. It wasn't worth the time I feel I wasted waiting on him to be with me. I feel I lost chances at real happiness which I actually did in letting go my high school sweetheart for him. Did I forgive him? Yes. Hate him? no I hated that he couldn't be real with me. Still like him? Hell to the naw. Don't let yourself be led on, let it go. I think that if you're letting someone lead you on they will continue to do it as long as you let them. Give an ultimatum and then move on if need be.
2006-12-08 12:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I hated him, while still pining for him at the same time. After that, it was full-frontal hate. Then, it was forgiveness — sort of. Now, it's tolerance with a lingering touch of resentment.
2006-12-08 13:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me once. so answering all points
what did you do about it? I got really frustrated and upset
forgive them?Yes of course because I would not have been trying to hard to make it happen if I did not like them
hate them?No but changed our relationship as friends forever and we drifted apart.
still actually like them?Had forgotten about them till your question to be honest so it is sad really as at the time we started off as really good friends
2006-12-08 12:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Xiao Ma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ignored them and I will always love them but I wont give them the power to come back in my life and hurt me again. I learned from the experience and got over it..... you should try the getting over it part..... email me?
2006-12-08 12:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, recently!
I backed off and we became just friends. Then he started using me for money.
Now I dont talk to him because he is an a*s.
2006-12-08 12:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been and i dient do anything to bring it on, but he liked to flirt with me and act like he wanted more from us and then acted another way when other ppl was around and another way when other ppl was around..i just told him that it would never happen. and that its ok he can do it if he wants but that is as far as it will ever go
2006-12-08 12:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋