Blaming everything on media, adhd, or anything else they can think of...
2006-12-08 12:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by Fisha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Because they take it personally that a fault with their child is a fault in them and furthermore it would require them to do something about it.
2006-12-08 12:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wyleeguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes its true. Sometimes some parents are very good parents, but the kids are just too much, and adhd for some is real. I have a child with Aspergers syndrome which has some of the same types of things ADHD has, and he is completely different from my other kids. It has nothing to do with how I parent. And I do not medicate him or anything. He is who he is. The only reason we had him diagnosed is for school purposes. He is well behaved though. Just other issues that go along with Apsergers. As for the media and tv, and stuff, that is probably the parents fault if they are letting them watch that kind of stuff. Anything the kids are allowed to watch they will try and copy, or learn from. Some parents are just lazy and dont want to take the time to enforce the rules, but then when their child does something they just cant seem to understand why.
2006-12-08 13:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because it is not always the parent's fault. Believe me as a fourteen year old, no matter what my parents do, I'm still exposed to things I'm not suppose to. Does it mean that my parents are bad? Of course not. It really does take a village to raise a child because many things interplay into the psychology of a child's mind and adhd can be a valid excuse. Usually when a child does something wrong its due to lack of communication, which is to blame on both sides. This is just my opinion though.
2006-12-08 16:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how the child is. For example, if a 5 year old is going around telling people he wants to kill them, it could be from watching violent television shows and the parents should take responsibility for this. However, if a 17 year old is saying the same things, the parents shouldn't take responsilbility for this. The 17 year old is old enough to know the consequences of what they say and do; whereas a 5 year old doesn't completely comprehend right and wrong at that young age.
2006-12-08 12:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we live in a general culture of blaming others for all of our problems. What really ticks me off is when people whine about preventable medical conditions, like Type 2 diabetes and obesity. How many more studies do we need to find out what causes obesity???? Ask any 4 year old!
But yeah, ADHD makes me mad too--I think it's usually complete BS--parents who never set limits or enforce rules with their kids, feed them nothing but sugar, and then are shocked when the child doesn't want to sit down and do math.
2006-12-08 12:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two ascertain and baby could be to blame. the youngster needs to assessment there are effects for their movements and the parents because of the fact they are elevating the youngster. seem at all of the toddlers taking photos different teenagers. the place are they getting the weapons? probably from their parents residing house the place the weapons arent locked up like a to blame ascertain could do. i comprehend that throughout the time of spite of an excellent upbringing and parental supervision (reason all of us comprehend we cant be with our teenage teenagers 24/7) that toddlers would be lead off track yet you cant p.c.. and choose which people to hold to blame. Make it uncomplicated: a ascertain is to blame for any crime their baby under sixteen commits. Sassydontpm makes an excellant ingredient. on a similar time as i think of there are suggestions to spanking I do agree that oldsters could get some rights lower back...
2016-10-05 01:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that also depends on the "kids" age. If they are old enough to know better the kids are just as much to blame as the parents. Older kids need to take responsibility for their actions too!
2006-12-08 12:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by baronboru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are a society of people who do not have the need to take responsibility for the actions of those they are responsible.
Enron, is a good example of this, thousands lost millions, everyone in charge blamed others for this mismanagement
2006-12-08 12:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I saw this the other day in the store where a mother let her 2 year old destroy toys and then just put them back. And she watched her do it too and never said a word. So not only did she allow it, but didn't take responsibility for it by paying for it.
2006-12-08 13:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are becoming very lax in disciplining their children, probably because spanking has gotten such a bad rap. No one wants to admit they are a failure. Most people can tell who the blame really falls on. The parents.
2006-12-08 12:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to face the fact that they are screwing up. These people genuinly believe it's the fault of the mediea etc, because it's easier to think this then to take a good look at yourself and realize you're a failure as a parent.
2006-12-08 12:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋