I have a boyfriend and he treats me really nice when we are alone, but when we around others he treats me like an enemy. He did buy me a pair of 14 k heart cut diamond earrings. He tried to grab another girls butt right in front of me,and he said" oh I was just playin." I was so mad and almost dumped him. I stopped to think about it and I realized that I love him way to much to throw that part of my life away. Other girls say I should get rid of him and that he is not good enough for me, but i think that they are just jealous. The girls that tell me that, are girls that like him or have liked him in the past......Please help me!! I don't no what to do...................!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 12:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything anybody else tells you to do. Here are some questions. Are you respected by your bf? Does he honor you and your desires and wishes? Are youembarrassed by any of his behaviors? Or would you be embarrassed if your friends or family knew of his behavior? Do you ALWAYS and in every way feel safe and comfortable with him? Would you be embarrassed to introduce him to all family and friends? If the answer to any of these questions are not good, just remember that there are consequences to the choices you make.
2006-12-08 12:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under the age of 25, then boys will always be boys. It seems that he is immature. You cares what kind of diamond earrings he bought you. He probably got it from Wal-Mart or Costco. The thing you need to think about is your own life. What you want to do with your life.
2006-12-08 12:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by titanman911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a front. He seems like one of those boys who only wants a girl so he has someone to go to when no one else is there. He likes the feeling of always having someone, and once he has the person... he treats them like ****. Honestly, if he can't be himself in front of both Y0U and his FRIENDS then he's not worth your time. Every girl deserves to be treated fairly by her boyfriend... ALL THE TIME. Not just when no one else is looking. So thihnk about it... and then decide whether or not its really love & if he's really worth it. Good luck and i hope you make the right decision sweetie=)
2006-12-08 12:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by LOSTinLOVEchick (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problems but i just blow it to the side dont listen to them other girls baecause they want you to be jelous. if he treats you nicely and buys you things of course he loves you even if he didnt and as for his acting out he is just getting over his player ways itll be better soon once he gets use to it.
2006-12-08 12:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by *~LIPS~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋