2006-12-08 12:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by 123_000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yup no matter what..
2006-12-08 12:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should always come first. You said I DO for good and for worse. However, it works in a more balanced relationship. If it causes risk to the children, then the chldren have always to come first. You are a wife, not a slave. Some husbands want to come first because they are abusive, but if your husband loves you and stands by you, of course you should honor him and treat him as a king. Even if he doesn't, unconditonal love is still fashionable. What it can't happen, as I said, is he being abusive and you lose your identity because of him completely. I hope I have helped you instead of confusing you - LOL.
2006-12-08 12:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In general, yes. That is, above friends, work, in-laws, your own needs, and kids to some degree, although that distinction is subtle. The only time a spouse would NOT come first would be if a spouse was in any way endangering or mistreating kids -- then his needs/wants are no longer valid. This is one of the thorniest issues for women: children demand so much time and attention, yet we have to be mindful that our priority is our role as wives. Not easy, but that's why God made us women ;-) because we can do so many things at once!
2006-12-08 12:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband always comes first however if I know he is doing something or saying something that I completely don't agree with my answer may change. However, I would always stand by him and try and support him no matter what.
2006-12-08 12:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are one, so you are asking me if I always come first and in what situations would I not. There are many situations where I do not come first, I put my family, my marriage above myself, we are alltogether one, each with our own needs.
2006-12-08 12:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that kids come before husbands and that's about it. Husbands are grown.Kids are not. Husbands can do for themselves, even though they don't like to. Kids, especially young ones cannot. I'm sorry I can't be of more help, but I would of liked a little more details.
2006-12-08 12:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. I put the child(ren) and what is in their best intrest first. I expect my hubby to do the same. Since spouses can come in go in the day and age, but your children are forever.
2006-12-08 12:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually priorites are God, family, country
and then everything else. :)
2006-12-08 12:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋