what would you do?
your reason for not wanting a relationship would be that you've had bad relationships in the past.
or maybe you just have too busy a lifestyle.
or you have commitment issues.
whatever the reason...
what would you do...given that situation?
the person isn't offering sex, they want a proper relationship
how would you react IF you DIDN'T WANT to be involved with anyone????
person is very attractive,
very adorable/loveable
yet almost what you call obsessed with you...
a stupid question maybe...BUT what would you do?
2006-12-08 12:20:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just come up to him and tell him "do not take this the wrong way but i just want to be friends" GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-08 12:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kyra P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you aren't comfortable with starting a relationship, then it doesn't make sense to do it. going into a relationship with reservations is setting yourself and the other person up for a bad experience.
just let the person know that you personally aren't interested in a relationship with anyone, and that its not just that you don't want to be with them. don't expect them to take this gracefully, as being denied is never a good feeling, but they will respect you more in the end for not leading them on or starting something that would only hurt them more in the end.
2006-12-08 12:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by dr. drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any assure that youll be like the way you have been in the previous...yet do no longer think of approximately them as warm boys. think of of them as purely yet somebody else so which you will tutor them how comfortable you're. men like while a girl isnt pressed oer them cuz if theyre truelly warm, they comprehend it. purely placed it out of your head that theyre fairly eye-catching and go from there.
2016-10-05 01:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they wanted a "proper" relationship, I would calmly tell them that I wasn't the relationship type (due to my busy life and my radical feminism), but would be willing to keep the friendship going. If they wanted a FwB, I would be much more . . . open. Heh heh.
2006-12-08 13:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might risk it for being with someone that likes me that much. But I am a guy, so I don't know how much my advise could help you. Be friends first, though, and see how it goes.
2006-12-08 12:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still like the guy that you r going out with then dont break up with him but if you like both guys then you have to think of all the fun times you have with both guys and what you like about both guys because then it will be easier for you to choose which giy you like more.
2006-12-08 12:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by koolchic350@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're pretty cute, i understand him. if he really insists, it means he knows what he wants, u could give it a chance, anyway you'll fast see if it leads somewhere and worth sacrifying some things or if its nothing special and will just end up hurting you
2006-12-08 12:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by DonGiovanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are not doing it for me then the answer has to be "No" because they may say they want a relationship but that is the hook they use to get you
stand firm I say
2006-12-08 12:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
steer clear would be my advice. Trying to be friends is in my opinion sending all the wrong messages and making life harder for your and them.
2006-12-08 12:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Xiao Ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends or date and take it slow.
2006-12-08 12:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋