I love my girlfriend and she is not a virgin but she is younger then me and I'm a virgin. is sex worth what everyone says it is. its not like what yall say will stop me from having sex with her but I just wanted to ask if its really worth it.
2006-12-08 12:16:03 · 30 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It *can* be a very transcending experience.
Sex *can* be the highest pleasure that you've ever experienced, both physically and emotionally (and maybe other levels).
Sex can bond.
Sex can heal.
Sex can spark that creative desire in you and help you get motivated.
Sex is like fire or money; it can be equally as horrible, traumatic, and bad.
Obviously you probably know to use a condom and some sort of back up birth control. Non latex condoms are the best, because you can feel more and less likely to get irritated (just my opinion).
Sex, in the long run, for me... is completely worth the heartbreak of the few times when it's been less than orgasmic and wonderful. It is that intense.
2006-12-08 12:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look Man, there can be a thousand defination & meaning of Sex. It depends on one's outlook. Some take it as fun, some do it from curiosity, some just can't control themselves from their desire. And for some people Sex is an art & for some people Sex is only a basic instinct. Yes, sex had its own functions and importance. But Having Sex is Best when Two people truly loves each other. If you love your girl & want to enjoy this new whole new experience just go ahead, or else ask your heart, set up your mind & Just follow what your Heart Says:-)
2006-12-08 12:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... there's a reason why God doesn't like the idea of premarital sex... think of what your future would be like if you married someone else and knew that you couldn't give them your whole heart and body because you had given it away to someone else in the past... or even worse... how would do you feel knowing that your girlfriend gave her virginity away to someone else, that she couldn't save it for the person who she will one day spend the rest of her life with... how would you feel knowing that you also took a little bit of her from her future husband? when you have sex with someone your souls also connect with each other and whether you like it or not you are going to walk away from ANY relationship with a little of that person in you, but sex only makes that connection stronger... if you really have no conscience at all to tell you all the reasons doing such a thing is wrong then nobody can help you... but listen to the words of the wise... would you want your family members and friends knowing that you did something like that? what would THEY think of you? and what would YOU think of yourself if you had to live knowing the rest of your life that you can never get that virginity back? sex isn't just like hugs and kisses... it's the reward we get for waiting for the right one, and waiting until we wed that person... so no, no, NO don't do it, not now, not EVER, unless you marry this girl first.... if not for you, do her future husband a favor and don't steal her gift from him.... even if she has already given it away to someone else...............
2006-12-08 12:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by ¡Sarita! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it unless you feel something real. Everyone will say different on this subject, but it aint no big deal. Almost every living thing has sex, its something the dummest animal can do. The people who make such a big deal about it dont have much else going on in their lives. If you want to wait, wait, who wants to cath something or end up with a kid anyhow. Dont believe the hype. Cause thats all it is hype. Any fool can get laid at any time. Also you all aint banging supermodels or porn stars so adverage people get adverage sex and adverage is never great. Who wants to be adverage anyhow.
2006-12-08 12:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by james l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is over rated. It is just like eating lots of chocolate. Sex is not really worth it. The hassles it bring up later after pregnancy is not worth the pleasure it bring in a few moments. Besides, there is no 100% method that will keep pregnancy away that is not permanent. Even condoms have a failure rate.
2006-12-08 12:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Hao Asakura 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is an emotional thing whether anyone admits it or not. If you feel for her and feel ready then go for it. But maybe you can try talking with her. I know that sounds cliche and totally awkward, but seriously, if you want something to work out you really need to talk things out. Sex can be the blissful cap to any well rounded, solid relationship. So if you feel for her and she for you, then go for it! But only if you're ready. Good luck:)
2006-12-08 12:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by brittybutter2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay a virgin until marriage. It is not worth it by doing it now. Also, you will get a sense of pride when you get married and have your first night of fun. Also, being virgin before marriage and make you feel powerful and pure.
2006-12-08 12:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by titanman911 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's an emotional investment that can drastically alter the chemistry of your relationship for good or ill. Sometimes it's great, sometimes it makes you wonder why you bothered to take your clothes off, and it's never EVER like it is in porn movies.
2006-12-08 12:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a virgin like yourself you should wait until you are ready cause if you really love her it would not matter.
2006-12-08 12:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is really great. But you have to be ready for it by believing in your heart that it is the right time for you. If you are ready for sex, you'll be nervous and excited, but you'll know it. And masturbate before you have sex with her so that you don't *** right away.
2006-12-08 12:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋