Ex broke up w/ me a month and a half ago. Said he still loved me and eventually wanted to be w/ me but he needed space and time.
Now he wants to get together. We have been speaking casually on the phone the last few days. The other day we spoke for an hur.
Why does he want to see me?
2006-12-08 12:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its the holidays and no one likes to be alone........
2006-12-08 12:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but...there are several possibilities. If there was a lot going on in his life, maybe he really needed space. Other possibilities are he wanted to date someone else and it didn't work out, or he just wanted to play the field but then the holidays came around and he felt lonely. Any way you look at it, this is a sign that he is putting his own feelings ahead of yours, and you should take it as a warning. If you decide to see him, proceed with caution and proceed slowly...because as any guy will tell you...all he wants is...well I'll let them tell you. :)
2006-12-08 20:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but it doesn't seem that logical.
Obvously you seem a tad skeptical about the whole situation. If I were you, I wouldn't take him. Do what you feels right, and use your best judgement. Sometimes feelings and common sence don't agree.. remember that. Getting mixed up with the wrong people can lead you to major trouble. Trust me, it's not worth the struggle.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 20:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dating is very stressful for guys. like he said, he needed some time to relax and get back in the game. you don't see spouses making out everyday just because they love each other. now that he is all better, you two should date again. if he didn't get the time he needed, you two would probaly break up soon after.
2006-12-08 20:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after you left him or he lt you go and after the time he spent without you, he probably realized how much he miss, need, and loves you. As you already said, he want to get back with you...now, what you are going to do? let him know how you feel. bring up the subj. and talk about it.
2006-12-08 20:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mean to be an *** but he might be horny...
of course it's possible that he still loves you
2006-12-08 20:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by somany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he misses you.
or maybe he just wants to see you to bone you
2006-12-08 20:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He still cares about you!
2006-12-08 20:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you let him?
2006-12-08 20:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋