My boy friend and I've been together for about a month. He told me he liked me about a month before I did, at first I said i did not. But we became even closer as time passed. and became very close friends. The next thing i know is that im asking myself whether i like him or not. in addition to that throughout the month he kept telling me how deeply he still liked me. and i ended up teling him i did too. Now i feel that the only reason i told him i liked him is b/c of how much he liked me. And now he's practically in love with me. What should i do?
2006-12-08 12:06:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least tell him the truth. My b/f was in love with me and told me so early on as well when I was barely in "like" with him. But I told him the truth about how I felt and we decided to stay together after a lot of talks about where this could lead for both of us. Now, several months later, I'm very glad we stayed together and we are in a great place, but you need to be truthful with him. If you really feel nothing but friendship, tell him so. It will be easier for him in the long run.
2006-12-08 12:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think that its never a good thing to lead someone on. Let the guy go. When you do that then both you and him can move on. He may be practically in love with you right now, but imagine what will happen if you keep dragging him along? If he likes you and you don't like him its obviously not meant to be. I believe that no matter what happens everything is for the better, and its all going to be ok.
2006-12-08 20:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by brittybutter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to put your needs and feelings first. If you don't like him or love him, then its better to break up with him now rather than later. It sounds like you don't know what you want right now and just need more time to think about it. Tell him you need some time apart for a while and just take a period of separation.
2006-12-08 20:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you honestly need to sit down and actually get your emotions together before you jump to any conclusion. do u care about him at all? do u think u only told him to make him feel better? once u figure this out then its when u can decide whether u should leave him or be with him. just dont take for ever to figure this out. his feelings are still involved. just do what makes you happy not anyone else.
2006-12-08 20:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by SEXY CHICANITA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell this guy that you are not ready to be moving so fast. he could just be overwhelmed with that "puppy love" stage. but what YOU need to do is take some time for yourself and go somewhere suculded where you are comfortable and relaxed. take some time and think if you really do like this guy and go thru pros and cons. if you do like him then tel him you do but you just need to go with the flow rather than taking huge steps. if you dont like him then sit him down and explain to him whats going on. and remember to tell the truth but be nice and hopefully he doesntget too mad. good luck!
2006-12-08 20:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should think twice about breaking-up with him. If it was the other way round, would you like someone playing with your feelings? Talk to him and explain that you like him because he is really nice to you, but you must think better about the way things are going. Analise if you really like him: atittudes, personality....If you see that he is a good and caring friend, don't break-up with him or give him my phone number :) Kidding. Good luck!
2006-12-08 20:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want about 100 miles of bad roads, keep doing things because you started doing them. Don't EVER get into that rut!!
2006-12-08 20:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he's the right guy for you? Or do you think of him as a friend. Be honest with yourself and to him
2006-12-08 20:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea Luke W is right you should kill yourself by sniffing heroine if you are not sure about this watch pulp fuc kin fiction you dumb *****. P.S. i didn't even read the Question you dumb bi tch hahahahahahahahahahahahaha im fuc kin sick man.
2006-12-08 20:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Luke B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the same way he does then you should let him know. Don't lead him on.
2006-12-08 20:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋