with an ex girlfreind....why would you do it??
Would it just be to past time?
Get your leg over?
or could it be because you do actually fancy her again and you may think you have a chance?
My ex and I have been flirting for sometime now, maybe about 2 weeks, we been talking over msn at work and he been making settle hints about us getting together....like today i said "screw you" so to speak and he was like "when"? i replied "in your dreams maybe lol" he said "well not every night"
What do you think people?????????????????
2006-12-08 11:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by hunybuny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol - ive just read some answers!!
Well let me just say one thing...he wont just be getting his leg over with me bc im not that easy and second of all we split up about 5 months ago, since then i've been with someone but it didnt work out and i think he has done the same!!
2006-12-08 11:40:23 · update #1
we are both single - I dont think he has a girl!!
Is it not just possible that he might not just want sex!!
2006-12-08 11:42:07 · update #2
of course i still like him.....i didnt actually wanna break up with him in the first place but i was the one to say yes we have to for the best bc it just wasnt working out. I dont just want a one night stand and I dont want to look like a fool....its either yes or nothing at all for me...but there are certain things that make me not want to go down that road again!!! I just don't know what to do lol
2006-12-09 08:08:27 · update #3
oNLY IF MY NEW BOYFRIEND COULD JOIN IN
2006-12-08 11:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you still have the hots for him!
So, why put all the blame his way.You said, that both of you have been flirting.Pick up also that you're loving it.!
Usually if you aren't interested, you don't waste time flirting.
Think you have a few things to consider..
.Ask the very same Qs of yourself.
Would it just be a pastime.
Do I just want to get a leg over?
Don't you, deep down, want to renew the relationship,?It sounds very much like it.
I pick up you are wary of making a fool out of yourself and getting hurt, also unsure if he just fancies a jog down memory lane!
Those are natural feelings in this instance.
But you are answering him with stuff like "screw you",when what you are really meaning is.. I'd love to screw you ,again.
Think back as to the reason you broke up.Do you really want to walk that road again?
Would I do it?Sure, I'd do it if : He had no current partner.
I had no current partner.
I wasn't,t so hung up on him that, I would get hurt, if it didn't work ,again.
I genuinely fancied him,and it wasn't just to prove a point,like I could get him back,if I wanted.
Those hints you mentioned are not so subtle, its obvious he is interested.
Its obvious you are too.So,if you can accept that it may just be ,for one more night.Then what are you waiting for?
If it grows and blossoms into a full on thing again,that is just a beautiful bonus.
Choose wisely!
2006-12-08 21:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason why exes often end up together again - if only briefly or for sex - is because they're a known quality. Dating can be scary because you're faced with strangers, but your ex is pretty much the same thing - something not worth staying with, but good enough to be attracted to in the first place.
It may not be that, but that's often the case.
2006-12-08 19:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to go back to "the reason why you split" Sure it might be fun and exciting, but at the end of the day he may just want a piece of you and that's all.
But if he doesn't know what he had until its gone then , hey your on a winner
2006-12-08 19:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys like to think they still have the ability to bed a woman.
Or maybe he still has a thing for you.
If neither of you have a partner then keep flirting for as long as you can stand it then when the time is right, who knows what will happen?
2006-12-08 19:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by daddykojak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wouldnt be too hard to get an ex to oblige with a Quicky... all you have to do if get them blabbing about a good time you had together and a few Bacardi Breezers later .. Bingo... Personally - I stay well clear of mine - My Mrs would chop my ...oh! you know the rest.. just dont get caught folks..
2006-12-08 19:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u guys only flirt with ya exs bc u know they will put out. if i was to catch ya doin it and her doin it back i would catch 2 cases n be locked away. or in a different country
2006-12-08 19:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's hoping for some "ex sex". He knows what he'd be getting and he figures he's had it once and he can get it again.
2006-12-08 19:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol, well first of all, tht is hilarous, and second of all, I think the last two are correct. the "get ur leg over" and the "think you have a chance again"
2006-12-08 19:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by The "Dony" 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would flirt with my ex to get some sex your ex is always easyier than someone knew. it sounds like she wants to get back with you or she just wants a booty call from you
2006-12-08 19:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem once. I still don't know to this day! May be cause feelings we had never died.
2006-12-08 19:33:50 · answer #11 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋