I met this girl in florida at a conference. We just clicked and we had chemistry and a huge attraction. We get along so well. The problem is she lives in Arizona and I live in Florida. My roots are in arizona but I left AZ becuase of my asthma and the dry desert air doesnt agree with me. She likes the desert but hates muggy florida. We both like each other a lot and want to be together but there is too much at stake for both of us: My health and her job. We already talked marriage and meeting halfway to reside. But nothing in mind yet..we thought of utah. But not sure yet. she is defeintely making an effort to get with me. She did cancel her trip to see me because she got scared she would fall for me too hard and quit hr job. But her family is in arizona as is mine. My parents love arizona..but I cant go back. I will die.Should I continue a long distance relationship with her? I already have too much invested emotionally and she does too. Should I just continue and see where this goes?
2006-12-08 11:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no such thing as a long distance relationship. Your girlfriend is probably already fooling around with other guys. Drop her and find someone that lives in Florida. What the hell are you doing? From what you've written, it's obvious to me that she doesn't want to continue this stupidity.
She doesn't want to leave her job?!?!?! That's the lamest excuse if I've ever heard one. She doesn't want you. She is just way too much of a wimp to tell you.
You're missing out on all of the beautiful babes in Florida. Who cares about your cheating "girlfriend" in AZ? If you guys were in a relationship, you guys would be living in close proximity. Find a good babe in Florida and be happy where you are.
2006-12-09 21:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before each and every thing... 4 WEEKS? Puleeeeeze! What do you assume those squaddies and their lady acquaintances are feeling at the same time as they should be separated for a 12 months or extra? in the journey that your relationship is on such shaky floor because of a month's separation, i'd say you need to quite take a closer look at your self and be sure if this lady is someone you adore or someone you only opt to possess or own. A healthful relationship isn't one the position you matter on one yet another for a way you sense at each and every waking second. it extremely is a recipie for catastrophe. There must be some respiratory room. if you're that insecure, she may be in for a lengthy, bumby, problematical relationship.
2016-11-24 23:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your health is in the way of happiness. But I think u two she just get a fresh start and move somewhere else together and start there. But she could be jeopardizing her job both of u should pick a state close to Arizona because all your family is there. But after u choose a state try 2 find jobs there and move. GOOD LUCK>
2006-12-08 11:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would defently continue with this realtionship bc the man im engaged to lives n ga and i live n tn and we managed to work things out living halfway sounds like a splended idea so do as we have Listen to your heart not others bc as someone once told me a heart wont lie
2006-12-08 11:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No job would keep me from the love of my life. Her reason she cancelled the trip. Sorry. That doesn't fly either.
2006-12-08 11:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't to end it i would try to get into a not long distince relationship and build that one to make a new girlfriend then dump the other 1.
2006-12-08 11:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you live in the sunshine state dude
fine some girls.
we have to mutch bitches in florida
2006-12-08 11:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet half way you have to meet half way or nither one of yall will be happy move to a place like North Carolina or tennessee
2006-12-08 11:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with her, bc it wont work sooner or later they cheat n find someone new
2006-12-08 11:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋