this is normal in teens correct?

Question

for some reason I do and don't like being alone. Sometimes I think i want attention for some wierd reason. i dislike being alone and not talking to people in class without some sort of conversation. i get bored very often and am very irrabitle (sorry for the spelling) at home and i get mad at no reason and lash out at my parents. sometimes i seem selfish. i also think i lack some sort of care or "love" probably why i like getting attention? i want people to talk to me for some odd reason or for someone to like me more than a friend (i know im wierd..than i get sad when someone doesnt like me more than a friend wtf..).

i get a lot of bordeom and anxiety here and there. i have a HUGEEEEEEEEE imgination and i live in it. i also have two sides of me, one is outgoing and crazy the other is quiet and normal. (this is normal i think). if my friends dont do something for me or i feel like thyre leaving me i get sad. and no, im not on my period.

Answer 1

Yep, that's pretty much what beeing a teenager is all about. Don't worry, eventually you'll finish puberty and your hormones will stabalize :)

Answer 2

that was like reading about my own puberty!
that's completely normal.. besides the hormonal and physical changes, a lot is going on in your mind, and this is the time when you are depeloping your personality, getting to be more independent from your family and you'll start feeling more like an individual (that's probably why you get mad at your parents.. fighting with them is almost necessary in this period)
You definately need your group of friends to make the trancision easier. And having crushes like you describe, will happen to you a million times..
you have absolutely nothing to worry about, 100% normal (if there is such a thing!)

Answer 3

Yes it is normal. Right now your body is going through changes which does effect your emotions. I'm wondering if you could take that huge imagination and do something with it when your bored?? Maybe write down what your thinking and create a short story or even a song? Just know this is normal and some people are more effected by their emotions than others. Your friends may seem like everything is going great for them, but believe me, they have their things they are dealing with too. Just remember...sad times, lonely times and boring times do pass.

Answer 4

You are normal. With time your gears will begin to mesh and things will slowly start smoothing out. For now you'll have to learn to deal with your ups and downs. Its part of growing from a child into puberty and eventually adulthood. Relax, try to enjoy the best years of your life, as these years still hold more freedom and liberty than your life will as an adult some day.

Answer 5

I think its normal in teens I go through the same thing with myself and your hearing this from another teen.

Answer 6

it's normal. I went through the same kinda thinking and feeling in my teen years.

Answer 7

sound pretty normal.
If you dotn want to feel as selfish, give.
Sounds duh, but its true. Wither its your time, a random gift, geting your friends lunch and passing on your own if they dont have money, whatever. It will make you feel alot better.
Thats just one of manythings yo can do.

Answer 8

Oh yes... you are a classic example of a teenager. It's all normal :-)

Answer 9

Read this webpage below. It will help you feel more comfortable with yourself.

http://www.phifoundation.org/happiness.html

Answer 10

I think you might be my identical twin. This is exactly how I am.