K Ive been talking to this guy......................................?

Question

( im on my cousins account so dont get her questions mixed upo with mine)
so ive been talking to this guy david and he really likes me and i like him back and i love him as a good friend but were not dating or anything but at school we pretty close and i was wondering is it ok to have sex with him cause we both wanna do it with each other and if im wearin a mini skirt or somthing at school he gets hard as can be if i bend over near him lol so um what do yall think? and no im not a slut or anything im 15 and a virgin so um yea

Answer 1

check it out... I was dating this guy and because of a lot of stupid reasons.. I gave it up.. and it's killing me now because even thought we were going out.. we shared alot of great times but our relationship looking back at it now was nothing.. and I cry because it hurts knowing gave it up.. to someone who ment nothing.. after awhile that's all their gona want and there gonna keep coming back... even when u don't want it or if you going thru the worst.. ish.. trust... babygirl you don't want to do that to yourself

I know you both want it but your putting yourself out there.. for a big risk.. who knows what kind of guy he is .. he can be abusive he might get you prego. he might have a disease or aids. etc I can go on and believe.. me I almost scared myself thinking I was prego.. I love kids I dream of having kids one day but I'm only 22

and the day I almost thought I was prego I was thinking in everyway how I would get rid of the baby.. I never thought I would get like that but I did,,, =( I don't ever want to feel like that again..
also knowning that I didn't want it with him made it worse

best advice dont do it.. but do what you know is right..

Answer 2

I'm 24 and I know in today's society, Generation-Y is losing their virginity at a staggering young age. I'm certain you've heard from more than one person that your virginity is something that you can never get back and should never be given to someone you truly don't love and plan to be with for a long time. Since I am a guy, I can fairly say that many guys may seem really, really interested in you--until they have sex with you. Then, you'll be just like the others to him and he'll move to the next girl.

Look, your virginity is something special, and I know peer pressure is often hard to deal with in high school, but trust me when I say that anything worthwhile is worth waiting for.

If you really like this dude, I encourage you to spend time with him and get to know him and after a LONG time of getting to know each other, you'll find out if he's willing to wait for you or if he's truly in it just for the sex. If he's really in it for just the sex, after a while of you not giving in, he'll move on and find someone else who will. That is when you'll know he isn't worth being your first.

I'm not saying you should wait for someone who you plan to spend the rest of your life with, but at least know more about him than just his last name.

You're a smart girl! Wait and the right time will come and you won't even have to ask if it's the right moment.

Answer 3

I wish you were kidding. Have you no self respect? You like getting him excited and teasing him. I think it is so sad that you are actually considering having sex with someone you're not even dating. Wake up little girl, you say you're not a ****, but if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, then you must be a duck. Please talk to someone that you trust. When you do have sex it should be with someone you love, and that loves you too. Someone that you have a serious relationship with. Once you do it, you can't take it back. You could get pregnant. THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!

Answer 4

no he just wants sex from you and you need to stop teasing him!
have some respect for your self because he doesn't have any for you. just remember once you give it away you cant get it back and you really should wait until your older and loose your virginity
to someone special. if you give in now you will regret it and you will be known as a sl**** all over school and the guys will expect it from you

Answer 5

Trust me don't do it. Like you said your 15. You don't need that drama. I'm a virgin too. I know there is a lot pressure and guys will give you all sorts crap. Don't listen. I've seen to many girls in my high school get pregnant. I just don't want to see another one go down.

Answer 6

noooo.. badness. Have sex after marriage is the best way. Not only do yall have a lot of growing to do, but having sex b4 marriage causes a wholeee lot of problems u don't want to know about.

Answer 7

I don't think so! If u want to ge pregnent thats fine with me because it's not my buisness, but have u thought about your feuture? Do u really want to be a mother already? As far as I'm concernd u know nothing about parenting or sex. It's not just to do it, It's for wanting kids and this is something to do AFTER marrige.

Answer 8

Don't have sex at least until you're 18 and had plenty of time to think about whether you really want to give away your virginity forever.

Answer 9

Save your virginity for your marriage, would be my advice to you! Hang on to your treasure! It means that much more to the man that you will end up deciding to give your life for someday. If you give in now, you will also weaken David's respect for you. You have your whole life ahead of you!

Answer 10

your berly fitenn. i dont really think you should do it. do it with some one you know you'll feel comfterble around, and know that your friendship will last even after it all happens. and besides, you said you wrent going out, right? so i'll seem like your sleeping around, even though it would be your first time. like like people are acctually going to listen to you when you tell them that. and you want your first time to be speacial no? and make sure its not just lust.