I like a guy reallllly bad. he likes me back. but my really good friend likes him too. and i havent told her that we like each other and are almost in a relationship...because i dont wanna loose her....ugh. so now what...?
2006-12-08 11:19:46 · 11 answers · asked by Singerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe try to get your friend to like someone else
it worked for me surely.
or maybe try to talk to her about it.
i mean if you wait too long and she ends up with him and you don't know, you'll regret it!!
2006-12-08 11:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something a wise woman told me one day....Guys come and go but friends last a life time. If she really likes this guy and you really like him you need to let her know talk to her and see how she really feels and if yall both feel the same about him maybe you both need to leave him alone. Trust me when I say going after a guy your friend like is never a good thing. Look at it like this there are other fish in the sea!!! lol
2006-12-08 11:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by lady_tee_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who means more to you the guy or the friend? That's your answer. Personally I would go with the friend, because it's hard to find loving friends in this world, but a single guy walks by once every minute.
2006-12-08 11:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek what a dilemna. Well you gotta choose who's worth keeping and who's worth losing. Who have you known the longest? Who do you trust more? It all depends.. do you think your friend would take this offensive? Does the boy know that your friend likes him too?
2006-12-08 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you really like him too. If your true friends, she won't get mad over some boy. Ask him out, it's worth it. If your friend gets over the top mad, get some new friends! Hope that helped!
2006-12-08 11:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi//Janie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to loos her by not telling her because some is going to ...just tell her and see what she has to say to you like this boy ssssssoooooooooo much if you dont like him that much break up with him and keep your best friend...just tell her you are in a relationship with the guy you both like,,,,
2006-12-08 11:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend she will let u and the guy be together or something.
2006-12-08 11:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... I was in this same situation (except with a girl), so my bro and I like this one girl at the same time, so I let him go out with her first and when they broke up and she was over him, I went out with her.
2006-12-08 11:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by The "Dony" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good friend then it's not worth ruining your friendship.
2006-12-08 11:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by TEXAS MOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if she is really your good friend than she will understand...
2006-12-08 11:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by listen to me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋