First off, I am a realy nice guy, . . . have all my teeth, am not bald or fat, have a job, own a car, and pay for my rent and all my dates. Im just not a point that I want any serious relationship, tho I am open to one if it happens to come along. I am friends with this woman that I have been out with a few times, and I am extremely attracted to her both physically and emotionally. However, I'm not sure that I want any "strings". How do I approach this subject?
2006-12-08 11:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by captainkirkwood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You first have to find out what she wants in a relationship. If you can tell that she's not the FwB type, don't bother. If she's like me and she frequently has to explain that no, she's not asexual, and it's love she's opposed to, then you're in.
2006-12-08 13:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men often tell me they understand my Christian choice of celibacy before marriage, and then get mad when I won't have sex with them. I'm upfront and honest and I wish they would be too.
You should tell her honestly what you want. She can respond honestly with what she wants. You may agree... or disagree... and/or come to an agreement through compromise.
But each of you has a right to honesty from the other so you can make a fair decision about what you want to do.
You sound like a very nice guy. I wish you the best.
Sue
2006-12-08 11:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you are not a door mat. Personally I don't want a guy picking up woman pads for me for I can do that myself. They may be jealous especially if they see you are just doing nice stuff and she is not bossing you around. There will be jealousy toward men and women whose relationship are going good.
2016-03-13 04:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With caution, I suppose. Why are you so eager to get into a relationship like that? They tend to hurt at least one party involved. Good night!
2006-12-08 11:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Be nice about it, but just flat out ask her. I would appreciate honesty from a guy, and I'm sure she would too.
2006-12-08 11:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by fit_for_queen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she would ever consider a relationship with you
2006-12-08 11:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly*Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello im the woman of this marriage ok and i think u just need to be honest with her and tell her the truth
2006-12-08 11:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it out there in a conversation when other people are around or not but dont ask her directly but when you say it get her reaction
2006-12-08 11:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋