He keeps on talking back to teacher in day care only, say bad words, hits kids and he gets angery really fast, me and his dad are not together, he see him every ohter weekend and my ex has a new girlfriend with 3 kids that he learns bad words from...what should I do?
2006-12-08 10:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by X-Tina 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
It sounds to me like your son is having an emotional overload! Step backand put yourself in his shoes for a minute. You live with your mom and go visit your Dad, suddenly Dad has a new girlfriend who is probably way different than Mom. You have to be nice to her and you feel guilty about it because you love your mom. That would make any one angry I think.
Try helping him express his anger in a more productive manner, if it contiues consider councelling or a group for children living in a divorced family.
Most importatnt let him know that you understand.
2006-12-09 06:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cannuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't he in school? Keep him away from the ex's girlfriend's kids! You are the mother here. Take control. Tell your 5 yr. old that this behavior is unacceptable and if you get a bad report you will take away all his toys. Then follow through. When he does better he earns them back. Heack, Santa is coming can't you use that for now????
2006-12-08 22:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he has a lot of anger and abandonment issues.
Be firm with him... but you have to give him a lot of loving too so he's reassured that he's not going to be left out in the cold by you.
Consider getting professional help who has training with these types of issues, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed and the dad is not backing you up.
2006-12-08 19:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by lots_of_laughs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boy and your boy's father need a serious talking-to. If you're taking the heat, you need to share the responsibility with all of the caregivers. You're not going to get anywhere unless you talk to your boy and his father honestly.
2006-12-08 19:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punish him. You will have to start dicipling him. I know its hard, but it has to be done. Start by taking away tv for a night then upgrade if it dont get better. It will be hard, but if your firm then you will see a change I guarentee it! Good luck
2006-12-08 18:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a talk with daddy about the issue
2006-12-12 15:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by BabyDolll128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur chilid and ur ex tell ur ex that hes picking up bad words from is gf kids and hes causing trouble and tell ur chilid that if he keeps it up ur gonna punish him
2006-12-08 19:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by someone n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋