I got in touch with a guy I had met a long time ago, by email. We had met while vacationing while we were young and had a summer crush on each other. That is the last we seen each other, but had talked a couple of times. When I contacted him, he remembered everything and we have been talking back and forth. He is married and sent a picture. Is it ok to continue emailing?
2006-12-08 10:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Do not mess around with married men.
2006-12-08 10:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by tiny_tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the emailing is to find out "where are they now," then it might be okay. However, if you are trying to strike up something romantic (remembering the good ol' days of when you first met) I would discourage you from it since he is already married. Sometimes we never get the chance to find out what happened to people we knew way back when. Sometimes, if those connections are reestablished, it's fun to find out where they are in life. Don't try anything romantic, though, since he's already married.
2006-12-08 18:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You should not continue to email him. He is married. Respect that. You have no business contacting him. Have some self respect and look for a new, single friend to make new memories with.
2006-12-08 18:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my first real love contacted me through a website, we e-mailed for a brief time. We were engaged once and he is now married. So I asked him if his wife knew that we were e-mailing and if she was okay with it. He never did answer me and I suspect she didn't know and wouldn't be okay with it.... so I stopped writing to him.
You need to know his intentions and make friends with his wife if possible. That way there are no misunderstandings of what your relationship is about.... and it should be nothing more than friendship.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 18:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but always keep in mind that he is married don not try to cause problems and who knows... maybe you and his wife will become friends. Whatever you do dont make trouble that is my best advice Good Luck! okee dokee : )
2006-12-08 18:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by the_smart_one33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? Your crush was ages ago. You can continue to be friends.
2006-12-08 18:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no harm in emailing with someone
2006-12-08 18:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can still email.
i'm sure he still considers you a friend
2006-12-08 18:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by millegas08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if he ismarried
2006-12-08 18:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 18:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by chica101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋