Well as some know ive liked this guy for 3 months im so scared of rejection its not even funny. He's so cute and my friends say he has a soft spot for me. but i think that a guy can scence confidence and i have none. I'm alil chubby on my legs. but im skinny on my stomach. weird right? well please help
signed: scared little mousie
2006-12-08 10:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by mouse4life100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go right up to the guy and break the ice. What is the worse that can happen? He is not interested in you that way? I know that the potential for rejection is weighing very heavily on your mind, but look at it this way. You didn't have him then and you don't have him now. What really changed?
Maybe he is waiting on you to make the first move. Some people need a little push. You really have nothing to lose by going up to the guy and flirting with him. Who knows? You have nothing to lose really and a guy to gain. If he isn't interested in you, then there are other guys to persue or persue you.
Most of all, you need to relax and be confortable with yourself. If you are too self conscience of yourself and your physical flaws, you will reek lack of self-conscienceness and that drives other people away. Everyone has physical flaws. Everyone. Even Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. The best of us carry ourselves like we don't have any or don't care.
2006-12-08 10:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 10:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys hate rejection as well. Suck it up and talk to him. Be confident. Stop worrying about little things. Go ahead and talk to him.
2006-12-08 11:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, dont be insecure strut your stuff and be proud of what you look like.....look at your self in the mirror and repeat your beatiful.... and that you love yourself.... keep doing it, no its not crazy!!!!! youll get some confidence!!! Good luck
2006-12-08 10:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they say he's got a soft spot for you, acept that, and go for it
2006-12-08 11:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋