I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:
"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???
If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???
Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???What is she trying to say???
2006-12-08 10:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MORE INFO:
We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.
2006-12-08 10:27:20 · update #1
It probly means she's been hurt before and is scared to let you in because she doesn't want to be hurt again. She doesn't completely trust you enought to let you in. That's the only thing I can think of as to why she'd say that. It's gonna take a while for you to gain her trust so if you like her enough and you have alot of patience and time hen go for it.She won't let you know how she feels til it feels safe for her to do so.
2006-12-08 10:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked the wrong question. Don't ever ask a girl directly what they think of you, you'll just get completely confused. Instead, just keep hanging out with her, and does she really know what you think of her? That could also be why she was reluctant to answer in a straightforward way. Let her know exactly how you feel about her, then ask her what she thinks. If she has feelings for you, she'll tell you. She might also be nervous about how to answer you, so just take it slow and it should all work out.
2006-12-08 10:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now keep quiet and wait stay distant keep being friend but let her think that you dont remember. Otherwise she will feel as you are pushing her! Stay like this for a while and if she really likes you she will become nervouse and you will know then you can go on...you know:)
2006-12-08 10:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mark W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she love's you in a platonic way and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying a blunt not to going any further. Keep being her friend she may come to realise that she really does 'fancy' you after all.
2006-12-08 10:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....if a woman/girl liked you -- they would've said so. They wouldn't hide behind fortune cookie philosophy. Find someone new - or someone old, waiting in the wings - who likes you for you and doesn't use you as an accessory.
2006-12-08 10:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Giselle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u ended up in the dredded "friends box." she's comfortable with you b/c she doesn't see herself ever dating you. she sound like she was trying not to hurt your feelings. it means she's not interested in you in that way dude. sorry. when you like a girl try not to be her "girlfriend" thinking this will eventually lead to a relationship. b/c after a while she will start seeing you as a girlfriend and not romantically.
Also, she sounds a bit nutty. it's better this way. who knows how screwed up she'd be as your girlfriend.
2006-12-08 10:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she really just doesn't want a realtionship right now. Also, you two don't seem like you have your communication worked out very well -- work on that first.
2006-12-08 10:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she is too afraid to admit that she has feelings for you. I would just leave her be or find a new friend.
2006-12-08 10:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is really confused. don't push it just give her time to sort out her feelings and maybe then she would be able to give u a straight-up answer
2006-12-08 10:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to hurt your feelings OR she is messing you about so I would save yourself the bother & leave her where she is
2006-12-08 10:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋