I know what i am doing is wrong. I have one boyfriend who i have dated twice but he lives very far away and like to travel, he is more exciting and ambitious and good looking with a great personality problem is he is unrealiable and contacts me when ever he feels like it, but he promises to take me to foreign destinations, treats me to shopping trips but is selfish. His friends are all professionals.The other man lives near me, he works in a care home and wants to start a family, he doesnt want to travel and has little ambition to do things and his life is the local bar with his friends all are mostly unemployed but he is very sweet and unselfish. I want to travel yet i want security. I am cheating on my regular boyfriend with the one from abroad, i will probably regret this i know its selfish. I am unhappy stuck in the house while my other boyfriend goes down the local and i am unhappy when the other man takes off for his travels.
2006-12-08 10:25:28 · 6 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with both of them and be independent and enjoy yourself for a bit. neither men meet what you need at the moment so get yourself sorted out first.
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2006-12-08 10:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should date more people. Do you think your "boyfriend" from abroad is waiting to see you before he has sex again? He is screwing around right now. You are also a bit psycho for thinking that he is your "boyfriend" after 2 dates. To him, you're just a booty call, whenever he gets in town. You are deluding yourself if you think that he is involved with just you.
Your other boyfriend seems like a loser too. I don't see why you have to commit to either of them because neither is committed to you.
I would use them for whatever they are worth, and keep looking for something better. There are men that are successful, want to travel, and want to have a family. Yes, there is someone that will do all of those things. You just haven't looked. Start looking!
2006-12-08 10:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the one who travels a lot !!1
He has no time for u so why keep him in ur life .
and btw you can always have trips with the other man who lives near you . That man has more security .you have no time .you're cheating both of them .dump one
2006-12-08 10:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't compare between the two men.each one has his own life and future,one like to travel the other doesn't.
I don't know how to say it leave both of them,its all your problem
2006-12-08 10:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by ayz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the one you don't like that you have aids. he'll probably leg it!
2006-12-08 14:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Du3ad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH THE ONE YOU WANT !!
2006-12-08 10:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋