i nd my boyfrend hav been dating for 3 months im pregnant now he wnts me too keep it bcos he loves me & @ d same tyme he wnts me 2 remove it bcos he"s nt financially strong. pls help me im realy confused
2006-12-08 10:24:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's not "financially strong" He should've considered that before getting you pregnant. You dont need to live with the guilt of murdering an innocent baby for the rest of your life. If you're not able to care for a child yourself I suggest adoption, but please not abortion. It isnt the babies fault, and it shouldnt be murdered because your boyfriend doesnt know how to use a condom properly.
2006-12-08 10:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is such a personal decision I think you have to think about everything and decide yourself. None of us will have to live with the choice you make. I know from being a mother and having gone through the same thing. You might want to weigh out all your options. You do have options! You are a woman and that is your body so it is up to you!!!
2006-12-08 10:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a big decision to make and you cant figure it out from yahoo... planned parenthood, if you belong to a church or any church groups may help you, your family, and you need to decide if you can have a baby, or if you can go through with not having it. id suggest looking up a planned parenthood or clinic/doctors office in your area and they can give you places that help.
2006-12-08 10:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why weren't you more careful? it is SO easy to NOT get pregnant. you are having a baby with someone you hardly know and probably won't stay with now the kid will grow up without a father because you couldn't be responsible.
2006-12-08 10:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cassian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never had this problem. but you should do whatever you think is right, not what your boyfriend says, not what anyone else says. the baby is in YOUR BODY, not anyone else's, it is your choice. there are many different options so you should find out everything you can before deciding on something, because you will have to life with the choice you make.
2006-12-08 10:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by pirate_smiles13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age would help. are u teens are older (in like 30's) i assume your young, and maybe u need to have a talk with your parents. this is a huge decision for everyone invloved and none of us on yahoo are fit to answer it
2006-12-08 10:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it up for adoption. If you keep it, I hope someone besides you teaches it how to spell.
2006-12-08 10:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY YOU CAN MAKE THIS DECISION.
Also use the spell check., it will make it easier for others to understand what you are trying to say
2006-12-08 10:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by thewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong to kill a innocent baby anyways keep it
2006-12-08 10:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
doode u barely know the guy to be having a kid with him...if you can't support a child either dont have it or give it up for adoption.
2006-12-08 10:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by zooey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋