I have worked with a guy for almost 2 years now, a few months ago our company announced it would be closing and today was our last day of work. We hang out all the time and I noticed a couple weeks ago he started saying things he normally wouldnt say and being even more flirty with me and everyone thinks its because we wont be working together anymore, so hes trying to let me know how he feels. Today he left me a note on my desk saying that working with me has made it way better and he knows we will keep in touch. Today when we were leaving work, he asked me to go to the movies. We have gone a lot through the last couple years and most times he offers to pay for me. We hung out for a while today and it wasnt more than an hour after we left each other, he called me to talk. He even calls me his "workgirlfriend" I have a boyfriend and nothings ever happened between us and we've just always been friends. Next week we have dinner together- should i let him know we still have boundaries?
2006-12-08 10:22:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should absolutely let him know, even before you have dinner.
You should also tell your current boyfriend about this guy from work.
2006-12-08 10:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, inform him of your boundaries if you want things to stay neutral. But, I have to say it doesn't sound like he wants to be just a friend! For some reason I keep thinking of the situation on the show The Office, if you don't know you should. I may be wrong but it sounds like he is more invested in your relationship than you realize, even if you define it as "friends".
2006-12-08 18:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by lo lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does like you so just go for him and dump the bf if he ain't acting like thats me and you and no one can change that . becasue this could be that one and only someone for you so you should take the risk of a lost bf or a lost that one chace with that guy . anyway if you keep going out with this work dude he will think he is getting somewhere and then when he makes a move you will push him away so take the risk of love and vote me #1 if this helps !!!!!
2006-12-08 18:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by cheyclarkton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop leading the poor guy on. it's obvious he's in love with u. everytime u agree to go out with him, you give him hope. u need to stop letting him pay for stuff and make sure he knows that u consider him to be a friends and nothing more.
2006-12-08 18:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, so you don't lead him on. He needs to be told where his stands and a friendship is all you will ever Cherish from him that's all, especially if you love your boy friend.
2006-12-08 18:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how it plays out. If he goes too far, let him know. But don't get too excited, because you don't want to ruin your friendship. Just make sure you don't get caught up in yourself, OK?
2006-12-08 18:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obious
He really does like u . And it really looks like he's quite sweet. and if u haven't told him yet that u already have a bf ........do it !!!
Or ir u wanna be with him ....dump ur bf !!!
2006-12-08 18:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he strongly likes u but i think u should take your chances with him he sounds like a really nice guy
2006-12-08 18:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,. or you may lose the boyfriend that you have now.
2006-12-08 18:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by mizzlady5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋