Should make a move or let it be?

Question

This this girl I have known for over four years. I had feelings for her, but she was living with someone already. Out of respect, I never pursued it, but I could not get her out of my mind. She recently left her boyfriend, who she's been with since high school. I still have feelings for her, but I am afraid she doesn't have the same for me. It has been 2-3 weeks since she left. I know the possiblity of her perhaps going back to him may occur since they dated for so long. I keep asking myself what do I have to offer to her that her ex could give her. Should I tell her, or wait a bit longer?

Answer 1

i think that you should wait a bit longer because she can still be fragile and she could get affected easily. i mean think about it, if she was with him for so long than she is going to need some time to heal before she can see other people, long relationships like that take time for someone to get over. give her a couple of more weeks and when you think she's ready and not so sad/fragile looking, go for it and tell her how you have been feeling for her.

Answer 2

If you go for it now there is a chance she'll leave you to go back to him but there is also a chance you'd be preventing that and you guys would be happy together so I say maybe you should sit down with her and tell her how you feel and how you've felt. She what she thinks and go from there.

Answer 3

wait till she over her ex and get to know not in a friend kind of way but way that makes you seem like the right guy for her and see where it goes from there i hate to say this because its been said a thoudand times but follow your heart and see where the path ends

Answer 4

dont tell her that u love her from the first time
just try to beclose to her more and mroe and give her attention then do everything to her that might make her smile
then tell her that u in love with her

Answer 5

if your feelings are stong go for hr you will never know until you find out for sure