can you still get pregnant if your a virgin?

Question

This is a really stupid question,but i'm paranoid. My cousin brings her b/f to my grandma's house to stay for a couple of nights. I don't like the fact that some guy I just met is staying in the same house I am and sleeping there too. So if he tried to do anything while I was sleeping, would I wake up ,but I am a heavy sleeper? If he did do something without me knowing it ,could i get pregnant?
thanks, to all who answer my stupid question

Answer 1

Even if you're a heavy sleeper, you'd wake up if someone was trying to have sex with you. You might not wake up if someone were to fondle/touch you. The only way you surely wouldn't wake up is if you'd been drugged.

That leads me to my next bit of advice: Don't accept a drink, even soft drinks, from someone you don't know, or don't trust. Or even someone you do know (you never know who you can and can't trust). Best thing is to ALWAYS get your own drinks so no one can slip any drugs into your drink. And don't leave your drink unattended...yes, even soft drinks.

If you feel uncomfortable about your cousin's b/f, tell your grandma that you don't want him coming over. Lock your bedroom door when you sleep. You have to protect yourself.

Best of luck.

mari

Answer 2

First of all: there are no stupid questions and shame on people who are critizing you . Second: An honest answer to your question is yes you can get pregnant if you are a virgin (If a man stimulates himself with his hand and then immediatly inserts it in your vagina there is a chance that sperm can survive and you could get pregnant rare but possible. For those who are stating otherwise: look it up. Third: If he was to have sex with you, you would no longer be a virgin even if you werent aware he was having sex with you. Last: Honey you are being a little paranoid. I would say that since you are on edge about him that your probably not sleeping as heavy as you usually would so he wouldprobably wake you up. If you are really worried: lock your door at night or talking to your grandparents about this guy and why you are worried But I would say chances are he wont be coming in your room at night. Take Care Honey.

Answer 3

First of all if you are a virgin and he did do something you would notice some tenderness, possibly even spotting in the vaginal area but not always.
You can most certainly get pregnant even if you are a virgin, it only takes once.
If you are unsure get a pregnancy test done, health units offer these free usually and they are anonymous.
P.S It is not a stupid question

Answer 4

hi their
well ur question is simply indeed let me explan for u
1. u r virgin u surely know or suspected how wasn't the feelings going through sexual specially very first ime touched by man... but all those it just ur mind thinking or judge on urself in reality is differrence no matter how heavy u r sleeper it is very hurt indeed u would forget in ur life time for the first time being hit by man object.
2. pregnant or not is depending on ur period is u r medal of danger zone ofcos surely 100% u will pregnant but base on monthly counting is really less chances hitting cos danger zone just below 8 days for every ladys monthly period. i sure if u still suspicious about this is really simple for self checking see whether got blood bleeding over ur private section on that first abd second days is important to make surely know about that night happen
well hope u r understanding my opinion here and my advice trying avoid male near u for save keep up ur precious goldmind til u have married sure u got u real acheive happiness family life cos u not have to said sorry for ur childrent in further days has come for u to facing ur very own family presure.. good luck

Answer 5

Technically, yes - sperm can penetrate even when the hymen has not been broken. (And of course, a hymen can be torn without sex - which means the definition of virgin has to be precise)

But highly unlikely.

Not, however, as unlikely as someone doing something to you sexually while you were asleep without your being aware of it. You would wake up.

So - about this circumstance, don't worry. Pick something more likely to happen, like getting hit by lightning.

Answer 6

I think you would wake up regardless of how heavy of a sleeper you are.

I think that if you are worried about this guy, you should tell someone before something does happen.

Answer 7

You're a virgin? I highly doubt you'd stay asleep through that. Is is possible...well yes I s'pose. I've never heard of it happening. If you're like most girls who's hymen doesn't break until they have sex...it's gonna hurt (no details necessary, but he's basically ripping skin inside of you the first time)... so you'll wake up.

When you've been married over a year like I have then that'd be relatively easy to pull off since you're a heavy sleeper.
lol

Answer 8

A virgin just means you haven't had sex. So, the only way you could get pregnant was for you to have sex with him. If he tries something when your sleeping and does have sex with you then yes you could get pregnant but just remember, that means he raped you if he did try something without your consent.

Answer 9

Yes! But you are being pretty paranoid... just because a guy is sleeping in the same house doesn't mean that he will try to have sex with you while you are sleeping. Can't you lock the bedroom door?

Answer 10

Baby unless u are in a coma, you are going to know if he messes with u. Because to do that with u in your situation would most definitely give him away. I would go in further with the details, but for u to ask that question gives me the thought u are under the age of 18 years of age and would best tell u to talk to your granny or mother about this that way u get this off your chest and they know your paranoia. Pray this helps