hi am planning on loosing my virginity next week on holiday do u think the guy will notice that i havent slept

Question

with anyone before, i know u will probably tell me not to but i'm gonna anyway ive been waiting to long on the right guy to come around. all the guys i meet only want one thing and i give up looking for one who dosent just want that so am gonna just do it cos i know when am older i will regret not having fun when i am young,
anyway will the guy notice i dont want him to know.

Answer 1

Men are not worth it they only want you for one thing and once they get it they will drop you in the time it takes them to cume

Answer 2

A direct answer to a direct question.
I think you're talking about the hymen. Will he be able to feel it give way? Perhaps yes, perhaps no. It varies from man to man, and from girl to girl. And, who knows if your hymen is intact or torn because of other non-sexual or semi-sexual activity? Probably not you either. And if it does tear while you two are together, you will feel the hurt a little (just enough to say Ouch!). And there'll be a lttle bleeding. Say Ouch anyway, tear or no tear. He'll find it very exciting.
But, hymen apart (no pun intended), your own behaviour will reveal all. That's for sure. Especially if he has fair experience.
Might be a good idea to tell him the fact, and ask him to take it a little easy.
Many girls cry a little after their first sex. You might too. That's another giveaway.
Anyway, all this is only a week away. And then you'll join the non-virgin's club. Is there a word for "non-virgin"?

Answer 3

I know what I say will not change a thing, but you really shouldnt do it just to do it. You should wait until you are both absolutely ready and there are no thoughts, it also shouldnt be planned, I think if the moment is right and it happens to happen, as long as you are safe about it and everything then it is ok. You might regret it more, if you do it now, and dont love him, or find that he used you for that reason. You can have lots of fun while you are young, but that isnt necessarily the way to do it.

Answer 4

You are out the window young lady! Unwanted babies, disease,
your name trashed, for what?

Do you just feel as though you need to have a man enter you?

Is your body on fire?

There are a lot of things that you can do to support a more positive
way than you now abdicate.

First, do something, take Martial arts and practice, music lesson,
ballet, tennis, fencing - join the Air Force! Just stop sitting around thinking about what and when you should put something between your legs!

You and your body are precious, special an beautiful!

If all they want is to get between your legs, then they don't give a damm about you, neither before nor after. No male every started
caring about a female because she opened her legs!

SEX is a part of male female relationship but it is not the starter.

Answer 5

i wish i knew how old you were but just by the way your typing out this question i think its fair to assume your pretty young. you really should hold off. in this day and age you cant really have fun with "sex" anymore! its just too risky. but anyways i know youll probably do it anyway cause you seemed so very determined so to answer your question; the guy is gonna love the fact that your a virgin. your pure. he has no worries as far as contracting any STD's. you dont even realize what a precious gift you have. the only one that should have that innocense is someone that respects you and truly loves you. i promise it is worth the wait. i wish i had've.

Answer 6

Don't do it!
It has to be, or should be, with someone you feel is worth it. Other wise you are being used even if you feel it is your choice - you are still choosing to allow a guy to use you!

As for fun, the first time will not be fun if you have no feelings for him. It will be awful for you and you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Will he know you haven't done it before? He will probably guess, but he won't care and do you want to be with a guy who cares that you are doing this for him - or someone doesn't care?
You are worth more x

Answer 7

Supposing you have not broken your hymen through some other means, yeah, he is gonna notice. However, given how little you know and the subject and how immature your approach is, you might want to give your decision a second thought. Also, I am pretty sure I can have fun without having sex.

Answer 8

YOUR WRONG. you wont regret not sleepin around when your young, its the oppisite you usually regret giving up your virginity to young. But thats not the question you asked, usually when your a virgin you bleed when you have sex, but not all the time. you can bust your hymen, riding horses, falling on a bike ect..... but in reguards to your lack of experience should give him a hint, I hope you reconsider, and wait , i dont know you but i do believe in the end youll be happier if you wait.....Good luck! no matter what you decide.

Answer 9

You are right!! Im going to tell you not to!!!!! Save yourself for someone special! I wish I had done! Im 42yrs mate! Trust me on this one! Its so much better when your in love with someone! Dont give your virginity to just any man! Wait till its someone you love, as I regret big-time giving mine to a guy who didnt give a s*** about me! I was nearly 19yrs and wanted to get it out of the way! Not worth it! Good luck! xxxxxx

Answer 10

yes the guy will know that you are a virgin. you should tell him that you are because its a special thing to give your virginity to some one. you may think that you will regreat not having fun when your young but according to my girl she wishes that she would have waited til she meet me because it was not that special with the guy that she did it with. just think about it before you go through with it because you may regret it in the long way. so please really think hard about what you are going to do before you do it.

Answer 11

The only thing you will regret when you are older is the diseases you contracted when you were young. It is best to save yourself for marriage. You will never regret your purity or saving it for the man you love enough to marry.

If you are ready to have sex, then you are also ready to have a baby or have a disease.

The first time can be quite painful and a tad bloody. He will know, but if you love him enough to have sex with him then you should have already discussed your sex lives and experiences with each other.