. There was this girl that I really want to have a more serious relationship with. We met on Monday and kind of hit it off really well. We went up to wall-mart and best buy. I brought her flowers *it seems childish but that is the way I was brought up*. We then went up to my place and talked for like 4 or so hrs. We kind of made out too but I didn’t plan on that. I told her that I would like to have a serious relationship with her. She told me that she wasn’t ready for one. But then she told me that she did like me. So here is the question what do I do. I can wait which most likely what I am going to do in the end, or I can move on. With the change that I may never find a girl like her again. I like her a lot. I like this girl a lot, we have a lot in common. Music, movies things like that. I am just so confused as what to do.
thanks
2006-12-08 10:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by dan_walicke 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She'll go out with you eventually. Keep chippin' away at it.
2006-12-08 10:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you tell her that "if she don't want to have a serious relationship, you are ready to have any kind of relationship she wants even if just playing around" Then by time this relationship will turn into a serious one.
2006-12-08 18:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bondok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you have a girl with things in common with you, then freakin' take it! Just be yourself, and you will be fine. I have a girl that I like but I don't know what to do since I'm not old enough to date! But when I am I will take her out to one. So just be yourself and she will love you. HOPE this helps!
2006-12-08 18:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by jakethesamurai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait. she probably just got out of a bad relationship and needs time to heal. give her a while if she really likes you then she'll come back, if not then move on.
2006-12-08 18:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude do not walk away from this one see sounds like the one that years from now u will be hiting yourself cause uwalked away from her, u dont want to do that trust me, i have seen to many of my friends do that. um like give her time, she is in to u, thats good for now, like invite her to go with u to your familys for x-mas, and be with her as much as u can, tell her u want to datem, but that you will take things as slow as she wants and that u will be there for her as long as she wantsb u to, do not walk away my friend, if u need nyhitng else dude feel free to e-amil me me anytiem for advice, i am a youth minister and i do this all the time.
2006-12-08 18:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by legalboy2_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy man tell her how you feel!!! when i met my wife she didnt want a relationship either but hey i pushed and pushed and told her how ifelt(plus gave her a little something something) so in this case if you are wild about her tell her take it slow and who knows i think women just want to be adored and felt appreciated so make her feel this way.
2006-12-08 18:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by smokymcpot420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋