I have been having problems getting treated for bipolar disorder. I have been depressed for about 8 months and my doctor wants to send me to the psychiatric hospital for more serious treatment. I convinced my doctor to let me try one more med for a trial that would go past christmas. if im not better by christmas, we decided that I should go through a program at the hospital for 3 weeks. Should I tell her before christmas? she worries a lot, and the last time i was in the hospital i had a really terrible time to say the least. it was traumatizing in and of itself. every christmas is terrible for my mother because she is always worrying about my sister and i (my sister is also bipolar, is struggling with her marriage and has been anorexic). She said that she is very excited because she thinks its finally going a good christmas. I dont want to ruin it for her by telling her this so that its in the back of her mind these next few weeks, but also I don't want her feelings hurt I didnt tell
2006-12-08 09:47:19 · 5 answers · asked by tigerlily22 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Tell your mom, but keep the message as "light" and "upbeat" as possible, this will help her to not be as worried. Reassure her that everything will be ok and that you're such a strong person because you're taking steps to get the help you need to be okay. Reassure her that this is temporary and that her being positive and supportive will help you to not be as stressed out and will help you to get through the treatments with a greater chance of success. Good luck!
2006-12-08 09:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with waiting until after Christmas, and then be careful how you tell her, like you have not known as long as you have. She may worry so much because she heerself has issues and she may have some guilt even though it is not her fault. Relax,breathe and enjot the holiday as much as you can. I wish you Luck and I'm sorry that I can not offer a better solution!
2006-12-08 18:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine why telling your mother that you are seeking treatment for a mental illness would upset her.
As someone whose husband is bipolar - I would think your mother could worry LESS knowing you are getting treatment, than worrying about your mood swings and behavioral issues. I would think she would be happy to know you are getting help.
2006-12-08 17:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait if u can. Try to make this Christmas the best possible. If u feel u need her help then tell her. I am sure she will understand.
2006-12-08 17:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Krystle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would wait if you can... I am struggling with SI and I want help but there is no way I would tell my family before Christmas unless it was life-threatening.
2006-12-08 17:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by lifesong0622 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋