hanging out with him?

Question

i have never hung out with him and i just asked his friend if all three of us could chill sometime. is this just being shy any annoying or do u think the guy wont care and will make the best of it

Answer 1

This is being shy, since you weren't confident enough to want hang out 1 on 1. But I don't think he would notice that, so don't worry about it. What you should be more concerned is the fact that your friends and him might (probably) not get along. Besides, if you were with your friend, I'd bet you feel safer that you have a place to escape to when the two of you aren't getting along. Since this is the case, you have the upper hand and most guys would instinctively feel negative about doing this. Most of the time, hanging out with many girls means that you'd have to just sit there, and listen to all the girls talk while not understanding a word that they say. If he accepted it, then good. Make the best of it by paying attention to him once in a while. Next time, have the confidence to go out with just him.

Answer 2

Hard to say with out more info.