There is a guy that I have known for some time. When I first met him about a year ago he was really sweet to me and always looked in my eyes and gave me nice compliments and tried to help me with stuff. Over the last 2 months though I have noticed a change thats not necessarily bad. When I used to walk in the room before he was really smiley and welcoming. Now though he looks down like hes really shy and embarrassed although hes still smiling, and finds it hard to talk to me and look at me. He seems really nervous. He speaks really softly to me, still wants to do all he can to help me though and really bigs me up to others. He tried really hard in the beginning to get me to notice him and now that I am falling for him he seems a bit different. My friend thinks its because hes gone from the fancying stage to being in love with me and hes frightened of doing or saying something stupid now. He has started to wink at me from afar and stare but when I get close he seems intimidated.
2006-12-08 09:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He really really likes you a lot. He just doesn't want to embarass himself infront of you, or his friends. Probably afraid that if he said something right now, that you don't like him. Just be nice to him, and eventualy he will tell you he likes you. Just don't start flirting with other guys, otherwise he'll probably never tell you he likes you.
2006-12-08 09:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chances are he may very well be intimidated. Moving from the "friends" stage to "dating" can be very confusing, and many people are unsure about how to make the first move.
Since from the sounds of it, you already have a friendly rapport with him, why not see if your assumption is right -- ask him if he is interested in taking your relationship to the next level. Good luck!
2006-12-08 17:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's sounds so romantic. actually for me it is the other way around. I'm getting shy . that's all.
he just is insecure right now it does take time. stil talk to him (about his feelings).and good luck.
2006-12-08 17:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just seems shy. He'll come around with a little encouragement from you.
2006-12-08 17:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He totally likes you. Aww, How sweet. Just talk to him like you always do and he'll come around.
2006-12-08 17:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by dazed&confused81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that he loves u too much and because of that he is having a tough time expressing his feelings towards u. that is why he is intimidated by u.
2006-12-08 18:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has gone from adolescence to puberty
2006-12-08 17:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by fall guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really like you girl. there's not a lot of boys who are shy in front of girls, If he is then he is in love with you, tell him how you feel.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 17:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he likes you a lot. i think it'd be best if you get someone to ask him if he likes you. i know it sounds really elementary but it works everytime
2006-12-08 17:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait for him to come to you. Just be nice to him. Don't pressure him.
2006-12-08 17:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by lavenderlovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋