Why can't a girl just meet/find a decent guy that respects her? Or better yet, half-decent to conversate with? I don't believe all men are dogs, but at this rate who's to say? The more we try and give them the benefit of doubt, the more they let women down. Now there are some good ones out there; the bad ones just out weighing them. If you are a good/decent guy, let a sista know.
2006-12-08 09:41:12 · 20 answers · asked by lilred24sta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice to hear from ladies who feel the same; but nicer, if men could respond and explain.
2006-12-08 09:43:43 · update #1
The Count De... dude is totally right. I personally think things have come 360. Girls are jus as deceitful if not worse with guys. I am a nice guy who treats a girl as a complete gentlemen. I pay for everything and am very thoughtful when it comes to gifts and holidays, however I have been cheated on and lied to on numerous occasions. Women are so bent on finding there "type" albeit the magazines they read or the television shows they watch they railroad themselves into thinking they have a type. Ask a guy what his type is and I'd bet it relates to something as simple as hair color. Ask a women the same question and she'll pull out a 40 questions scorecard. Just let things happen, if he's not a chauvinistic pig and your attracted to him give him a chance. In the past I have had g/f's that i wasn't instantly attracted to but after getting to know them they proved to be far more attractive than I 1st thought. Good Luck
2006-12-08 10:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse19rap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been know to be a good descent guy most of the time! It really depends on the people I'm with and how they act to/with me and what kind of a relationship I have or want to have with that person(s)!! Allot would also depend on the place/situation of the meeting!!! I must admit though I always treat others with the up most respect unless or until they show me they do not deserve my respect (this is true anywhere anytime with anyone!!! So basically if you want a good descent guy there is more us than you may think - and no the bad ones do not out number us!!!!
2006-12-08 09:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good men, unfortunately, tend to either A) get married quickly before the other, non-bride girls can get to them, or B) are gay. Many guys these days are too focused on having sex rather than soulmates, and as a result they don't bother with respect or intelligent conversation- after all, they figure they aren't going to need those things. And unfortunately, it's the women who are willing to put out for them that reinforces this behavior.
2006-12-08 09:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why i'm with a Latino i've got met a lot of Arab adult men, some as acquaintances some as extra beneficial than acquaintances and all dont comprehend the thank you to handle a woman....they are all abusive of their own way (not all in simple terms those I incredibly have customary) i don't care that i'm with a non Arab anymore he treats me extra helpful than each Arab I met earlier him blended
2016-12-13 05:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by amendola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel like you sorta want a guy like Jack off the titanic I mean guys have know respect for us anymore!They can't just be normal like we're the only person on the world with them.They think that why should I only have 1 woman but some of those aren't like that.
2006-12-08 09:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like you got burnt. sorry about that. I'm a good man with morals and honesty and I was just wondering the same thing about girls and their tendency to cheat after years of faithfulness. guess there's always 2 sides to a coin, huh? and unlike richard g I find some "Sista's" more like Nubian goddesses
2006-12-08 09:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, we are all dogs at heart. Some sort of genetic throw back to populating the earth and the survival of the species.
2006-12-08 09:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your looking in the wrong places. meet someone through a friend or relative. Or look in a different neighborhood, someplace without less crime. college campuses are great cause most people there at least want to make something of themselves.
2006-12-08 09:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are looking in all the wrong places and at all the wrong type of men.... Maybe you focus too much on a type of man and don't pay attention to the ones that you are obviously looking for...
Try a bit les critical and maybe you will find what you are looking for...
2006-12-08 09:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by JohnS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont like to toot my horn, but I am of the opposite thinking. I am almost convinced that women want guys like that. They seem to love being treated like ****, cheated on, lied to, beaten up, fighting, ete......because they always seem to put up with it like its the most natural thing in the world.
I dont treat women like ****, I am not a player, I dont lie, or play games with their head or their feelings. Yet I cant seem to get a date because im not a project that women want to "change"
Part of the reason alot of guys are asses is because alot of women have no spine and tolerate all of their **** that they do.
If I found a decent, smart and fun girl who actually didnt want to be treated like ****, she would get treated like a queen!
2006-12-08 09:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Count DiMera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋