My ex-boyfriend just cheated on his girlfriend and broke up with her. I've also had one boyfriend in the time since we broke up. And he cheated on me. Now the first cheating ex-boyfriend wants to get back together. He's told at least 5 girls he loves them at the same time, and I don't think we should get back together. I've tried to tell him what I'm feeling, but he just doesn't get it. I don't know if he's just stupid or really not listening. How can I tell him what I think without hurting his feelings?
2006-12-08 09:38:06 · 24 answers · asked by TAYLOR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should you really care about his feelings? He obviously doesn't care about anyone else's. Be direct, it's always the best way.
2006-12-08 09:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about hurting his feelings! The guys sounds like a jerk! Tell him that you don't want to be with someone that you can't trust. Maybe if you lay it all on the line he will get it through his head why you don't want him back.
2006-12-08 17:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like hurting his feelings would be the last resort at this point since he obviously doesn't care about anyone else's, from what his actions show!
2006-12-10 03:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is your feelings. You don't want to get hurt again so don't do something you will regret. Tell him you don't want to get back together with him and that's all there is to it.
2006-12-08 17:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by vanessac2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about hurting his feelings. WIth a history like that, I think that it's about time that someone started telling him the blatant, honest truth.
2006-12-08 17:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did he care about your feelings when he cheated on you? No he did not! Furthermore you have made it clear that you do not desire a reunification. Since he doesn't understand that he by all means hurt his feelings.
2006-12-08 17:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be worried about hurting his feelings? Sounds like you are way better off without him.
2006-12-08 17:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you can't see you to dating just as friends or as brothers tell him you don't love him in that kind of way and your sorry but it's not going to work out
2006-12-08 17:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his feelings get hurt, that's not your problem. Tell him honesty that you aren't interested in dating a cheater. Period. It's not negotiable.
He sure didn't care about hurting anyone's feelings when he was screw*ng around.
2006-12-08 17:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you right?? Then why would you be nice to him??
He's a player... his "feelings" won't get hurt.
2006-12-08 17:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by evoboi21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋