How do I get a girlfriend.?

Question

I am not a jerk and I'm just a normal kid. I am a 15 year old, and I have had girls tell me I'm cute before, but now those girls have boyfriend and now I'm looking around. I am nice and I have a good personality. I don't know what my problem is. I have a hard time trying to find a girl to start a conversation with. How do I do it?

Answer 1

Be yourself. Different qualities attract different people.

If you're shy and don't know how to go about starting a casual, social conversation, you can probably start by talking about something related to school (since you guys probably go to school together...maybe). Maybe stuff like "that assignment was hard, huh?", "how did you do?", "how did you (not) understand that stuff?", "can you explain it to me?", etc. Just whatever starts a conversation. Don't be afraid of rejection, if they don't seem to be interested in talking to you, just move on. There's no need to be upset about something like that. There are people (girls) who will talk to you.

After acquainting with them, you can probably ask stuff that are more "social", like the movie, TV shows, Christmas, jokes, etc. Many girls like guys with sense of humor *wink*.

Just open up yourself a little bit. You don't have to be the school's most popular guy to have a conversation with any girls. And, so what if some of them don't want to talk to you, "that's part of the process of finding someone compatible."

It's okay to be shy. There's nothing wrong with it. It's just a part of you. It may be a little harder for shy individuals to socialize compare to people who are not shy. You'll probably grow out of it or learn how to deal with it sooner or later. Don't worry, you have lots of time ^_^.

Hope that helps. Good luck

Answer 2

The answer I am about to give you will probably be blacklisted by all the females that read my answer, but I'm cool with that. The reason its hard for you to find a girl is because your not an asss hole. Most girls go after all the pricks. If you want a girl just turn into a total asss hole. Believe it or not, girls like the jerks and bad boys. This is why I also can't get a girl ether. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

dude don't worry man I had the same problem, when I was 15, honestly you have to be yourself and don't be afraid to be turned down, because once you ask them out they know that you are interested, I admite I've been turned down more times then enouph but I've gotten better at it and the last 3 girls I've asked out said yes and those relationships lasted a very long time including the one that I'm in now but, trust me don't go for looks go for there attitude. Looks are the worst thing to find a girl by.

Answer 4

Hello, your present female friend would possibly or would possibly not have a factor. Consider this: how might you suppose in case your present female friend was once spending a while with an ex boyfriend? Even should you might suppose it's ok she does no longer, and facet of loving a individual is since what makes them suppose uncomfortable and doing the reverse. Changing and doing matters that yet another individual likes does no longer always imply that you're replacing who you're; it simply implies that you're taking yet another individuals emotions, likes, or dislikes into account. (Normally while in a dating comparable to this, that is the case) My recommendation: Limit your touch along with your ex female friend. Your ex female friend is to your beyond and your present female friend is your gift. Am no longer announcing or suggesting you must disregard your ex female friend altogether however your ex must be handled the identical manner you might deal with yet another man pal. (it must strictly simply be friendship from afar; given the historical past you men have with one yet another.) Hope matters determine, and I desire this recommendation helped.

Answer 5

Getting a girlfriend is quite easy...you first haveto get to know thw girl.....obviously.....dont go for girls that you know will deny you in an instant...this can be very obvious too...but yeah go for the simple and most honest girls that you find....pretty got and sweet girls dont really exist anymore and if you get one she is probably just using you....yup hard truth but its the truth...anyways that girl is someone that is more to you than just looks..someone whom you feel comfortable with...not just ANYBODY!!! The rest is up to you for I can't tell you to be faketo a girl just to impress her and then be yourself and she will be like what happened....to the person i knew....

Answer 6

Okay, here are my patented (patent pending) rules for being social and winning friends (or girlfriends). When reading these rules it is important to note that you are working on changing how people percieve you. I'm not asking you to give up things you like, just change HOW YOU PRESENT these things and above all how you present yourself.

Rule 1: Take Care of your Appearance
It is the rare person who can truly see someone without taking into consideration how they look. You want a potential mate and friend not to see you as a walking mess or a "fix me up", you want them to see a polished person. Confidence is the #1 most important trait to have when dealing with people. Confidence puts you at ease and them at ease because YOU are at ease. People often rise to the same emotional state and by being a positive state in your appearance, it will help sell the confidence.

This means, go to the gym. This means keep your room and your car clean. This means throw out your shirts with holes and yoru pants with stains. This means find a style and go with it. Buy TShirts that fit, not ones that are too big or too long. Ease into a style of clothes that is comfortable for you but not just something you threw on in the morning. Get a haircut and shave. If you need to lose weight, lose weight.

Rule #2: Don't be Creepy.
This is a hard rule but it ties in with #1. Once you have our outward apperance clean and tidy it is time to work on not being creepy. This means stop talking incessantly about star wars. Stop wearing looney tunes shirts. Stop making stupid jokes that are designed to be confusing. If you have to explain your joke to more than 10% of the peopel you tell it to, STOP TELLING IT. I'm not saying you have to give up liking star wars, just stop talking about it like it is the holy grail. Clean up your action figures and put them in a nice glass case or something.

Rule #3: Actually talk to girls.
A lot of us think that a girl is just going to fall from the sky and into our laps. Romantic comedies and teen sex romp movies seem to teach us that eventually the perfect girl just shows up. This is crap. You have to reach out to girls and talk to them. Girls like a guy who is free with conversation, a guy who can talk to them like a person and not like they are an alien. Have conversations with girls and you are right on your way to having long conversations over dinner, or being introduced to their super hot cousin!

Answer 7

I say you just go up to someone that you fancy and find common ground. You may need to get to know them before you go out and ask them out. Sometimes love will just have to find you so don't look for it because you will only find it in the wrong places. Then when you find that person that you fancy you need to tell them that you would like to go out on a date, then just slowly from there. Hope it helps.

Answer 8

Be nice and be cool! girls are just like boys except for.... yea you know! Just drop a casual convo to a girl without a boyfriend that you like. Keep talking and be nice. Then the girls are bound to notice you! :)

Answer 9

Talk at least two girls each day and you will get noticed. Say 'hi', and they will reply back!

2. Smile whenever you see a girl that stares at you alot.

3. Jump in discussions at school, like in math when a teacher is dicussing stuff, ask questions .... get involved!

Answer 10

first i am free. Second find a girl who likes the same stuff as you do. dont stalk. just watch. If you like baseball find a girlwho is in softball. a lot of girls like a good joke. im sure youll find one in no time.