Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.
She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.
What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already?
BTW, here relationship is on the outs and she's telling me she's getting out? I haven't heard back from her yet about the party, even though she swore she'd get back to me. Help?
2006-12-08 09:28:27 · 9 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is testing the waters... she might like you alot, but needs to be cautious because of her current relationship. or she needs someone else to talk to deeply then her boyfriend. you never know with us!
2006-12-08 09:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jahna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
translation: she has a boyfriend, who she is already been with and most likely WILL NOT EVER LEAVE. She apologizes a lot because her conscience is killing her, most likely about thinking of having her boyfriend and you makes her really feel guilty.
i think you should move on. she wont leave him! she seems very dependent.
2006-12-08 17:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she wants out of the relationship and in with someone new (obviously you). She must be working on that duty so if you like her - go for it (when she is not with him anymore).
2006-12-08 17:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you are a lucky man she is likeing another guy while she has a boy friend. in girl talk that mean she wants you.
2006-12-08 17:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs a person to vent out her frustrations and that is you. chances are she will not get out of the relationship. and if she did, you will not be the person she wants to hook up with.
2006-12-08 17:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you , and is waiting for you to tell her that you wanna date her before she ruins her other relationship completely
2006-12-08 17:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by ohmeggosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants u man, step up ur game and seize the moment.
2006-12-08 17:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be she is afraid that you well re-ject her so I would call her and tell her that you like her life is short so do what you can with it!
2006-12-08 17:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by happy spirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you....
2006-12-08 17:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋