well i have been seein this guy for a couple of months we get a lone really good.We spend time with each other not all the time put some time.We have had sex and every thing he says he cares about me alot an i feel da same but it seems like he wnats to be wit me but some times i feel like he is pullin back what should i tell him
2006-12-08 09:17:17 · 11 answers · asked by unique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've only been seeing him a couple of months. It's totally natural as it feels like there is more of a commitment to hold part of yourself back a little bit. If it bothers you that he is pulling back, I guess I'd recommend pulling back a little yourself and see what happens. Maybe withold the sex from him when he does that and see how he responds. As for competing, any guy worth having won't bother trying to compete because they know they can get somebody, and if you aren't focused on them, why would they bother?
2006-12-08 09:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel he is pulling away and it is just a feeling and nothing more. Consider this though, sometimes what seems to be real is not and sometimes it is real. I would not go and borrow trouble. I would forget what seems to be the case and wait until something actually happens to confirm your assumption.
2006-12-08 17:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't sure what he wants, or whether he even wants a girlfriend right now, talk to him and be straight about it. You need to know where you stand or it won't work :)
2006-12-08 17:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by BBaller25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to tell him anything. Just let the relationship run its course.
2006-12-08 17:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch it for little longer
2006-12-08 17:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by baniban2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be serious and exclusive let him know dat
2006-12-08 17:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if he had sex with u than keep him
2006-12-08 17:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he never had it so good, and if he doesn't open up, you'll be chatting it up with another dude.
2006-12-08 17:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by raci_tracey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should just tell him how u feel
2006-12-08 17:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by hulagirl267 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compete against who?
2006-12-08 17:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋