When you first meet a girl how long before you may show affection toward her. How much is enough, when is the right time to show it? And when do you get grossed out by it. Serious answers plz.
2006-12-08 09:12:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really want to stick with it,
show her affection from the beginning, but be gradual, nothings worse than having your first impressions being obsessive and stalker-like
pay attention to her, if she seems comfortable with the level of affection, pick up your game a bit
but no girl worth your while is going to give everything up quickly, so keep an eye open for those who are just looking to use you (unfortunately there are a lot of them)
I hope you can find the right girl for you ^_^ good luck
2006-12-08 09:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by yokai_tenshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when go into a relationship, don't look at it as forever on the first date. Take this time to just get to know her and not get into her pants. Every girl is different. If you show affection right away or say the L word right away, it is going to look like you just throw that word around and you do it to more then just her. That will freak her out too. I went out with my boyfriend almost everyday for three months before we even got serious. Until then, it was getting to know each other, and seeing if we can stand being around each other for long periods. And seeing what peeves we had with each other, and how to work them out. There is no right time to show it, you will know when the right time is after taking the time to get to know her.
2006-12-08 17:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 or 4 days is good but only if you can see that she likes you too. If she only sees you as a friend then she will consider you a stalker. If you don't know her very well, dont show too much affection until you do. Just try little things like touching her shoulders to say hi, until you two grow closer.
2006-12-08 17:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by prettynpink0491 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking ladies"how long before you may show affection toward another woman" Should this question be in the Lesbianism section. I don't think this is what you meant, but wake up. word it right
2006-12-08 17:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl and the invisible lines she has put up for you to not cross...If the girl is flirty with you and touches you in cute little ways, then it is perfectly okay for you to do the same...always start small, with a hug or something...feel the vibe she is giving out, read into her and then act!
2006-12-08 17:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no set answer for this question. It's different for every woman, so take your cue from her. Go bit by bit ask her if she's okay with things like you holding her hand (ask permission, don't just grab it) and whatever else you have in mind.
2006-12-08 17:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously it all depends on who you are. If you feel like the time is right then make little moves, or talk to your girl. I would like to know when pep got so scared to talk w/ one another
2006-12-08 17:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by TR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever u feel ready to u dont want to rush
2006-12-08 17:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋