Letting go...easier said than done?

Question

I dated a guy for 6 mos and we have had our ups and downs. we were never committed but we didn't want the other to date other people. We had a big fight and I let my temper get in the way and I said some means things. I think he deserved it but he said he didn't want to see me anymore b/c he was very disappointed and upset with what I said. I apologized many times and I wish I would have dealt with my anger differently and waited until I had a cool head before addressing the situation. We have corresponded thru email a few times but he still hasn't called me to try to work it out. He told me he hopes we can be friends one day. I know he is done but I'm not. I have decided to let it go but I do want him back in my life. I do miss him. Any advice?

Part of me wonders if he still misses me or what. I just can't believe he is so quick to let it go and not look back.

Answer 1

UHHHH TOOO LONG NOBODY REALLY WANTS TO READ!

Answer 2

If he can walk away quick without looking back then he never felt about you the way you thought he did. My best advice is stop wondering if he's missing you and just move on. If it didn't work it didn't work. Better only six mths than 6 yrs.

Answer 3

same here...one yr relationsip down the drain...i accepted Jesus Christ in his arms and now her regrets the whole relationship and all of the memories...he was my first love...we r not friends...and we talk bad about eachother....so dont expect the best...always expect the worse it can get...b/c if u get something different it will b better right?

Answer 4

two days shy of one year annniversary i caught my guy coming out his house with his ex-girlfriend of 8 years. totally caught me off guard; it's 48 days later & he's never called (and i spent a year w/him!), it still hurts as if it were yesterday. when u figure out how to let it go, let me know please.