My boyfriend says my sexual demands are more than he can bear. He says he loves me but asks that I respect his wishes when he's not in the mood. Is there something wrong with him as I was led to believe men always want it??
I fancy the pants off him and admit I struggle to keep my hands off him. He says 4 times a week is above average. Am i being to demanding?
2006-12-08 09:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add he has just started a new job so, that might change a few responses. im 28 and he's 25. We are pretty smitten with each other. not sure if it's the new job. I'm feeling guilty...lol
2006-12-08 09:12:55 · update #1
Is BeautyBreak H a hooker? I do not need to see someone like that for tips!! lol You're respone stinks of jealousy. Maybe the reason u have so much experience is beacause no one stays with u! lol cheap and nasty go away!
2006-12-08 22:43:38 · update #2
How cute !
Maybe the guy needs some time off. Your libido demands more than his- that's all.
No biggie...
2006-12-08 09:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, everyone has different sex drives and these can fluctuate up and down at different times. Whether you're a man or a woman.
It's really cool you have met someone who you really like and likes you the same. I know it's hard but try not to put too much pressure on him to have sex if he doesn't want to as this may cause friction between you two. Maybe playing a bit more hard to get will have him wanting you more too!
2006-12-08 17:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's under stress with the new job or some other reason. Most guys would love their lady coming on to them 4 times a week. I know I sure would!
2006-12-08 17:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime woman have the sex drive of a man, and the other way around. I personally would agree with you, but in accuality 4 times a week is way more than the national average
2006-12-08 17:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Four times a week, my husband would be in heaven!! NO it's not too often. Have asked professional opinion (husband is sitting next to me!) I would respect his wishes though as I expect my husband to respect mine. He might lighten up and relax when the pressure is off! Good luck and Merry Christmas!! xx
2006-12-08 17:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by maria bartoninfrance 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if he cannot manage more than 4 times a week you just got unlucky. You like him, that's great and a reason to stick by him. However, I gotta be honest with you, depending on his age that may meet average, certainly not above average if he fancies you as much as you him.
2006-12-08 17:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Four times a week is about average, maybe a bit under average. I wouldn't say that its unreasonable to expect sex once a day personally. I understand both sides of it, he gets tired of your "demands" & you get frustrated by his lack of enthusiasm. Talk to him more, ask him what time of day his preference is for sex and then you might get it more? Good luck!
2006-12-08 17:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The truth is that u are probably unsexy as u may think u are and also if ur ***** is not tight (over used ) no man will ever enjoy sex with you.Try some new tips and see how he will change.There are certain things a man will never tell u untill u learn it urself.No man runs away from sex under normal circumstances.
2006-12-08 17:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
He is overworked, overstressed or simply not turned on.
Ask him what's bothering him. If he refuses to divulge, just let it go for a while. You'll only make it worse
2006-12-08 17:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with four times a week.
2006-12-08 17:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Gorilla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋