My parents think I should be older before I date I t is hard to live in New York and I want to live on my own soon , both of our parents are great they just do not want as to date and get to know one another , We both did nothing in the past, for them to think that way ,because we now just started to have feeling for one another , when we were 15 and now , me and him soon will be 17 , but I have seen many people say get over him , but he is different he is not like the others , he is loving ,kind, cute, genoures we have every thing in camen, we where ment to be he not like the dogs that ,(when you walk on the street and all you can see is men stair amd make caments that they want you in there bed , I am just having a hard time letting him go because it hurts , I was hurt before and I do not like that feeling , can any one help me to try and get over him , what can i do ? I don't want to think about him any more , because evry time I do I fall deeper and deeper every time.
2006-12-08 09:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well yeah you are too young just give it some time just a few more years when you are older and have more understanding in life
2006-12-08 09:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's human nature to want what you can't have. It makes you want it more. Like when I go on a"diet' I tend to gain weight cause I eat more chocolate.
I started dating very young and I shouldn't have, I regret it big time. I missed out on so much and had sex way to early. I should have waited until marriage I regret that I didn't. When you date young you start other things earlier-kiss, fondle, and more.
If both your parents didn't want you two apart you wouldn't like him as much.
I know it must be hard. But If i had married the person I dated at 16-eek what a mess. I thought I loved him and I didn't meet my husband until I was 23 and he's great. We've been married now for 17 years! And I'm still in love with him.
God bless and good luck to you dear.
2006-12-08 09:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanmarie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"we where ment to be"
I know first loves can mean everything in the world. But beautiful you have yoru whole life to live and so many guys to meet and flirt with and fall in love with and get your heart broken over. If you parents have issues with u dating, and u really like him date secreatly. But keep an open mind about the future and never expect whats going to happen and who it will be with.
2006-12-08 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im dealing w/sorta the same thing...mainly i just wanna get over this ONE guy.....( a one yr relationship) okay for one: dont be ALONE! another: watch tv, interact, listen to music, call a friend, DONT get BORED!!! stay active and get involved in more things at skool like clubs or sports or something...go out a lot and LOOK at other GUYS!!!! it rlly makes u feel better...also, do things uve always wanted to do b4 but never have b/c u were afraid of wht HE or others would think...it makes u feel like YOU. you DONT need a man to make yourself feel beautiful...and thats where i messed up ALOT!
2006-12-08 09:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all at 16 i don't see why your parents shouldn't let you date. they seem as they they are paranoid and don't trust your judgement. maybe you and your parents can compromise and allow the two of you to hang out at either his house or your house. i don't see anything wrong with the two of you going to see a movie together or something. you are certainly old enough in my eyes. but maybe you could get your parents to compromise. especially if you will be 17 soon. i don't normally condone to lying and sneaking but honestly you are both old enough to drive. i'm assuming you go out with your female friends and him with his male friends why not make sure you cross paths when you go out. if you really care about him that much you don't have a lot longer to deal with the parents. but remember when the two of you go off to college are you even going to be anywhere near each other? but if it's meant to be it will all work out.
2006-12-08 09:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents are smart people, one day children always realize that. there will always be other people to date and if you are supposed to be with this person then it will work out. Focus on things eternal and all will be well.
2006-12-08 09:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you're both 18 or out on your own. If you're in love, it can wait. If not? At least you'll know.
2006-12-08 09:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Odysseus J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Teenagehood is a time of hormones and survival
2006-12-08 09:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Camel Eye 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if u really like him talk to Ur parents about it and see what that say after this conversaton/
2006-12-08 09:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by nathalia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋