I have a dilema like most of you...here's my story. There's this guy who likes me alot and I think he's okay too. The problem is: He's the brother of my cousins husband. My cousin married this guy and this guy has a younger brother. He's 26 and I'm 28. He knows I've never dated before nor have I ever been in a relationship with anyone. I recently told him my age yet he continues to like me. The other problem is: is he in a way my cousin? I never thought about it until my friend brought it up and told me that he's my cousin indireclty since his brother married my cousin. Is that true? I need advice as to what am I suppose to do. He likes me alot and he shows it by texting me everyday and calling me to see how I'm doing. He also stated that he really likes me and won't do anything to hurt me in any way. He knows I have insecurities when it comes to dating. I told him I don't trust guys as far as dating goes. He says he'll be patient until I'm ready to date. What should I do? Thank you.
2006-12-08 08:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by amy_s03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go for it. The two of you arent related so it doesn't matter. This guys seems so sweet to you and he seems like everything you need in a relationship because he is willing to wait as long as you want. Why would you want to let someone like that get away?
2006-12-08 09:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by prettynpink0491 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in no way related to him. Your cousin is the one related to him by affinity because of her husband. She is her cousin by affinity. Go date him if you like him. Age does not matter nowadays. There are even women 10 years older nowadays and it is accepted by society.Before that applied to men only.
2006-12-08 17:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin married a guy and you are interested in his brother. So? You're not related by blood. Go for it.
2006-12-08 16:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Chair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, if you love him. Besides, it's not gross or illegal because is NOT biologically your cousin, but only by marriage. I say date him. My mother was 7 years older than my father, by the way, so its NO big deal.
2006-12-08 16:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes just your cousin in law, and that would make no difference in anything, and just wait it out, it should feel good knowing you have someone who cares about you that much and would wait for you
2006-12-08 16:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not blood related....so why not your 'only two years older....as far as not trusting men about dating after a while you may trust him after ya get to know him better ...trust is earned not givin
2006-12-08 17:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by angelheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋