My husband is going to court with his ex-wife this Monday. He wants my two year old son and I to attend. I just do not think this is appropriate. You do not bring wild toddlers into a court room. At least my son is. What is your opinion?
2006-12-08 08:53:11 · 10 answers · asked by manicschematic 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not to mention its in a city an hour and a half away, so my son will already be figety. My husband has not taken responsibility for his obligations either. He expects me to right the checks out, so I don't feel like being supportive.
2006-12-08 09:13:07 · update #1
Children do not belong in court. I attend court hearings as a social worker on almost a weekly basis. Kids become bored in the court room and become very unruly. The judge will probably ask you to take him out of the court room thus defeating the purpose of you coming. I'm not sure what the point of your husband having you and your son attend would be anyway.
2006-12-08 14:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by jeepy1999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband is trying to make a point to his ex. I would not involve myself in that. Let him make a point without trying to use you and your son. You are right, you will be spending most of your time outside of the court room trying to mind to a 2 year old in his terrible twos as I used to say with my kids. You will have your hands full with both the boys. Stay at home or go to work. Give him your support by listening and offering a hug... and support can also be offered afar.
2006-12-08 09:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that you do not feel it is appropriate for you and your son to attend court. If you're not feeling comfortable with the situation already you'll feel even worse when your there. Also, you might want to take into consideration the feelings of your husbands ex-wife. My opinion is to stay out of the courtroom!
2006-12-08 08:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your son is a wild toddler, you have another set of problems to deal with. Get a sitter if your husband wants you in court. Don't bring the little one. It may be unrealistic for a young child to sit through what oftentimes is a long boring event.
2006-12-08 09:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by larry r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, taking your son to court is not at all proper. The judge will probably ask you to remove him from the courtroom. It is important for you to be there to support your husband, but don't take your little boy. Find a sitter and go with your husband.
2006-12-08 09:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would probably go if your husband really needs the support, but i would wait outside or in the hallway....and i'd bring some toys for your son.....but no, i wouldn't take a toddler to a courtroom if i didn't have to
2006-12-08 09:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by SNAP! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he trying to use him for something? I agree with you. Especially if he is trying to use his little innocent face to win lol. Plus, hes only two and for all of you know, he could scream a bad word out of no where when the room is silent. Or, misbehave, or get fidgety. Hes only two lol Its not the right atmosphere for children.
2006-12-08 08:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The court will more than likely ask both of you to wait outside. Children are NOT allowed in most courthouses.
2006-12-08 08:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are correct.
2006-12-08 09:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by S. B. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go.
2006-12-08 14:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by copestir 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋