should I talk to my mom after 2 years?

Question

my mom and I had a big fight 2 years ago and we havent spoken since what skhould I do

Answer 1

You only have one Mom.Get ahold of her.Be the one to make the first contact.If anything, at least then it won't be on your conscious if any thing ever happened. Plus, you could ease your mind knowing you tried and who knows, it could all work out.

Answer 2

Yes. I've never had this experience, but my husband was in a more exptreme version of this. His father left the family when my husband was 5, and has pretty much been uninvolved. My husband is now 30, and his father just contacted him a couple of months ago by letter and said he wanted my husband to call him if he was willing, and my husband did. Then my father-in-law said he would like to meet with him to talk if he was willing, and my husband said ok. His dad apologized for all the pain he caused him (my husbands parents were 17 when they married while my mother-in-law was pregnant with him) by being the jerk he was. He admitted he'd made a mistake as a kid and deeply regreted everything and he had no excuses. My husband, although I love him, was always such a bitter person and unforgiving (he was a total hardass). Now that he has spent some time with his father (they aren't best buddies or anything, but they talk to each other and see each other regularly), it seems like the clouds have lifted. He's a better husband and father now (not that he was bad before, just even better now). I think that you don't know unless you try, and if you don't you'll always wonder. It can't hurt.

Answer 3

Honey, let me tell you something. Of course it will be difficult for the both of you. You can't just expect to start talking and everything is back to normal. No matter what, the fact that you had that fight will always be there. It will be a long process, but I do think you should start talking to her again. The mother-daughter bond is one that cannot be denied. I used to have a lot of fights with my mom as a teen but now that I am married and an adult, I get along with her very well. I have apologized to both my parents numerous times for being so rebellious in my earlier years and they have forgiven me. Once you and your mother start talking again, I think it is important for you to resolve whatever happened between the two of you. Family will always love you no matter what.

Answer 4

Parents are never the perfect people. Like us they have faults, sometimes are parents do thing that even they don't understand. But it is not our job to "set them straight" by not talking to them. It is your duty as a child to honor you mother and father because is lengthens your longevity. Besides, when everyone else is gone, your mother is always gonna have your back. Think about this: If you can shake off something that a friend did to hurt you, why can't you brush off the argument that you and your mother, the person that gave you life? Enough said! Stop trying to prove you have balls, everyone sees it!! CALL YOUR MOM!!

Answer 5

Let by gones be by gones.

My husband and his father had a falling out years ago. After we had our first child they started talking again and it was the best thing for both of them. My father in law recently passed away and my husband is glad that they started talking before he died.

Whatever the fight was about, it is not worth not talking to your mom about. Good luck.

Answer 6

Sweetie, you only get one mother in life. Work it out, it'll be worth it in the long run. No argument is worth missing/spending time and loving each other for who you are, especially between a daughter and Mom. Nobody's perfect and remember we as Moms dont get an instruction book with you when you were born....we make mistakes too! Forgive her and Love her!!!

Answer 7

The best thing in your life is your Mother and Father.My Mother died before I was 2 years old.She can never be replaced.I was lucky though my Dad married a wonderfull woman that tried very hard.I often wonder how my life would have been.Tell your Mother that your sorry.(even if she was wrong). Only you can heal the wounds.Do not put it off another second.You will thank me I promise.Remember That there may not be a tomorrow.

Answer 8

Life is too short. Pick up that phone missy and call your mom. Be the bigger person and tell her that your sorry and that you want to make things right between the two of you. My mom is my best friend and we talk everyday no matter what your mom loves you unconditionally so call her. I bet she would love to hear from you it's almost Christmas.

Good Luck :)

Answer 9

talk and greet your mom b4 its too late u are only daugther , you have to say sorry , even mom is wrong ,also this christmas , give love on christms day
never to do that again , remember u cannot be a human not because of ur mom , go and have peace now so u will have a blessings and all your dreams will come true

Answer 10

It all depends what's in your heart. If you really miss her and want to be in her life again why don't you make the 1st move. Remember, you only have 1 mother, and God forbid anything happens to her, you might never forgive yourself. For you to post this, deep down inside, you must really want to talk to her again, but just don't know how to do it. The holiday's are coming, maybe you could call her and tell her you miss her and love her....... IF SHE LOVES YOU, WHICH IM SURE SHE DOES, SHE MIGHT BE VERY HAPPY TO HEAR YOUR VOICE AGAIN, THEN YOU CAN TAKE IT FROM THERE. GOOD LUCK!