i like this girl in one of my classes and i speak to her every day at school,we are both seniors in high school...the class is a 95%lecturing class where the teacher talks for a mass majority of the time and its a small room,so you cant get away with talkin during the class........iv never really givin her any signs that i like her other than im always nice to her,ill get her a book so that she dont have to get up,im always very nice to her,ect.
we usually have small talk for about 2-3 minutes before the class starts...
but thats it....
i recently got a suggestion that i should try a letter telling her how i feel...any suggestions?
2006-12-08 08:47:22 · 9 answers · asked by Old Spice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aight,so yall want me to,while im talking to her,work in the question like..."hey,i was wondering if you would like to have some coffee sometime and then maybe a movie?
would that work or should it be different,like...more coothe?
2006-12-08 09:04:11 · update #1
Please, don't write her a letter. That is so 7th grade. Just tell her that you like her. It's either she does or she doesn't! Us girls like it a lot when guys make us feel special. Just, ask her out sometime, and then see what she says. If no, then wait to cry, and leave the room. Also, just shake it off like, maybe some other time. My advice is always the best.
2006-12-08 08:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by wormwoodkid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude, listen; letter means your weak, dont be weak when it comes to approaching. It takes skills and guts to get something you want. But since ur a senior, i hope you not looking for a long relationship unless you gonna go to the same college. Just go up to her and say, i have something serious to ask you about, and spill it out and maybe she will agree with you. And dont be to nice to her like getting her books, it make u look like a tool. Be a guy and a good person. Try it out and tell me how it goes. Good luck pal
2006-12-08 08:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should come out and tell her how you feel. That might scare her away. Maybe when you guys are talking, suggest that you guys go out and do something together. If she says yes, then you have your foot in the door, and just let it go from there. Don't tell her anything too soon.
2006-12-08 08:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Blayzn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 01:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like my prob. i would suggest maybe flirting with her, but you sound like the romantic type, if she is into public displays of affection, maybe send her a box of chocolate or a rose (only 1) it is more romantic. if she is into quiet secretive stuff write her love notes and put them in her locker, not something like a stalker would do, like when she opens her locker she will probably look around, when she sees you, smile, almost as if you know what was going on. if she is into flirting get her a little gift and stick it in her hood or something, hope this helps.
2006-12-08 08:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by I Smoke Cigarettes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,wat abt her intrigues her towards u?u know,liek expand on how she makes u feel but don't let her now.u hardly know her.after class r skool,ask her out for a coffee r it's christmas now,umm buy her sum pens cuz she always asks u,lol.some joke u guys hold close to eachother r jsut a sweet gesture like a necklace,goodl uck=)
2006-12-08 08:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The letter thing is so corny and overdone, don't do this just tell her and if she doesn't feel the same way don't worry there are more girls that will like you for you
2006-12-08 08:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by D-Xgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why a note? Walk up to her and ask her out. A note seems a little immature. Ask her out for pizza and a movie. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.
2006-12-08 08:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of a letter ask her if she likes to have lunch with you at shakeys or mc donalds.
2006-12-08 09:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋